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Am I being funny, or *is* he being a *bit* weird |
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Got this:
Got a HUGE sinking feeling, nasty thoughts came to my mind, signed into msn and he sent me this:
Hi there sexy guy! I've got a few suits I can't get into any more. Sadly the older ones which might fit you better have turn ups which aren't cool at the moment. Pleas send me your neck chest waist and inside leg measurements in inches so I can check what may do for you
Hope you don't mind second hand clothes, but it could save you several quid. I have to come up to Players HQ on Friday evening for costume for Carnival on Sunday can I come and see you with suits then and if none are suitable we can go to Norwich as arranged
We can go to Norwich anyway of course, I wanna look round and maybe we might see some stuff for our holidays in USA! Send me those measurements as soon as you can so I can hopefully find something for you. Can't wait to see you. Love you mate Peter
I honestly don't know, is he putting "mate" in there to kinda show that we are just mates?
But what the f**k is with "sexy guy" and "love", seriously!
I don't think I'm going to be sending him measurements of myself, will just go to burtons in the morning as planned and buy one.
I don't know what to do, I haven't replied....but I don't want to be rude.
Thing is, how do I reply with: "Hi, no don't want your suits, you creep me out, please don't talk to me again".
lmao this is such a ridiculas situation I know, but it's so....eugh!
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se_p800
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Pleas send me your neck chest waist and inside leg measurements in inches
Lol I could just imagine him slipping "and penis" into there  Sorry im joking of course i just had to say it.
Anyway more serious. After that text he sent you i really do feel you need to say something to him. If you are worried about being rude dont be, if you are worried about hurting his feelings dont be. I know how you feel as I sometimes find it hard to tell people things like this, just tell him you dont feel comfortable with some of the thinggs he says and for him to tone it down a bit. I think the worst thing for you to do is to not do anything and just let it continue..
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i think if hes saying love you mate and meaning mate that is kinda just like ur a close friend....the sexy guy is a bit weird but again could be his way of being friendly
the measurements though.....sounds like hes making a life size model of you :|
Just send him a message back saying my C*ck is x inches long.......happy now?
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On 2008-08-06 23:42:54, A L 3 X wrote:
the measurements though.....sounds like hes making a life size model of you :|
Just send him a message back saying my C*ck is x inches long.......happy now?
There is no part of that i didnt find funny 
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On 2008-08-07 00:11:21, se_p800 wrote:
On 2008-08-06 23:42:54, A L 3 X wrote:
the measurements though.....sounds like hes making a life size model of you :|
Just send him a message back saying my C*ck is x inches long.......happy now?
There is no part of that i didnt find funny
oooooh.....someone is happy i'm back 
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lmao.
Mum got in from work an hour ago and we've been talking about it.
We phoned up our friends, who are best friends with this guy, and they even made him godfather to their 2 girls 13 years back.
Mum spoke to the husband about it all, and she started crying on the phone saying she can't believe he's done this etc, and he said that his wife said this to him last week, she said that she's worried that Peter is kinda getting a bit funny with me, she said she picked up on it but didn't say anything.
Anyway mum spoke to him about it 30mins ago, and now the wife has just phoned us back to talk, so I'm guessing they've been talking about it all as well.
Got to remember, he's been our friend for 10 years and their friend for 15-20 years, so they're on the phone now talking about what should happen.
Thing is, my mum said she's so angry because I said to her the other week, does he just feel sorry for me that my dad left and is he kinda stepping in, and my mum said yes he is a bit.
So she's pissed off that my dad leaves me, and then this guy goes and does this to.
Said she's also annoyed that she always taught me that you can be best friends with a gay guy, and nothing will happen, they're not *obsessed* with men, but she said that she could understand how I can get angry about this.
I don't know if people here know, but I fell out with ALL my mates back in Jan and haven't seen them since, so I have no friends and no dad, lmao, so when this guy wanted to go to the cinema with me, I thought great, someone I can do stuff with, but I guess not.
Anyway my mum is taking this very seriously, she said that if this happened to my sister who is the same age as me, she'd be livid, she'd be round his house now, so why should it be different because I'm a guy.
More then anything, she's upset about the trust that's gone, like I said he comes round every week or two, and then he does this?
Take this for example, my mum has to see him tomorrow night, and he'd normally be comming round for coffee afterwards....She's not sure what to do now, should she talk to him before tomorrow, after tomorrow etc.
Either way we both kind of agreed that even if we did take it on the shoulder that he just went a bit funny, and we just say please stop and leave it there....We would always know what happened and we would never forget that.
Mum said america with him in 2010 is deffinatly off, her words were "I can't allow that predator in my house any more, let alone go on holiday with him"
So sad, he was such a good friend, and I've known him since I was 10, but it was upsetting watching my mum cry on the phone trying to explain what had happened, and then to of had the person she was talking to agree with her and say they picked up on it as well.
Anyway that's the jist of an hour conversation.
Still not sure what's happening.
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Sounds pretty bad buddy! Im sorry for ya'. Keep us informed..
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Thanks mate.
Think they've both decided to talk to him, mum said she just can't have him in the house any more and that breaks her heart to lose such a dear friend, and the other lady said she completely agrees and if she was in the same situation she would do exactly the same.
She said her daughter is 17 (man I thought she was 13 lol), and it's like a 40 year old bloke hitting on her, she said it's the same thing and it's disgusting and she's ashamed that she's friends with this guy when he's doing it.
Apparently he's done it once or twice before and a few people notice it, but kinda over looked it and didn't think too much off it at the time, they just thought he was being a bit silly.
But she said she deff picked up on his feelings and she was saying how she talked to her husband last week because she was a bit concerned of this guys behaviour around me.
What a jolly old balls up eh!
I can't get my head round the fact that my family won't be talking to this guy for a long time, and it's mainly because of me.
I know it's not my fault, but I do feel some what responsible because the situation is based around me.
What a prat, he was a brilliant friend and he's just gone and done this crap.
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Dude this is in no way your fault what so ever, if anything you are the main victim in this. This is a sad thing to hear that you will lose an old friend and that it has caused such problems but these things do happen innit
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Yer cheers for that mate, I know I'm not to blame, but even so I just feel bad about it all, but sh!t happens, just got to take it and move on really.
No idea how it will all play out, we will see over the next few days, tomorrow should be interesting as mum has to see him tomorrow night.
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this is sick , you shouldnt feel bad.
what couyld you haev done in the situation that wouldn't have caused an bust up? |
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I thought about that last night, I could get to sleep so I decided to go shopping untill 5am at asda lol.
I thought, when I saw he added me to MSN, I thought to myself, do I really want to add him to MSN, because I don't use it that often, maybe once a week, and if he's on MSN I know he'll ask for help with the computer more and more often, but then I thought, oh well he's a nice guy, I don't mind helping where I can so I accepted him.
Though if I didn't accept his invitation, none of the text would have happened and he wouldn't of got my mobile number either.
Thankgod my contract runs out at the end of the month so I'll be using my old number again lol.
I know it sounds silly saying if I didn't accept his invitation none of this would have happened because at the end of the day if a friend adds you to msn, it's a good thing, you want to talk to them, but I remember at the time I wasn't too keen on accepting it.
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where did he get your MSN from the first place?
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Not a clue mate that's what I was trying to find out, didn't get it from me, mum, sister or bro, the *only* person I can think of is my dick head dad giving it out, but I didn't think he knew it I mean I not seen him for 2 years, I could have changed it.
But if he didn't, then god knows!
Maybe he googled me and found my addy via another site, scary to think that he may of sat there and been following what I've been doing online or something.
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thats what I was thinking.....maybe looking u up on myspace/facebook/bebo?
maybe he's watching this thread :S
like you said....ur mum has seenwhat hes been sending u....maybe u left ur phone on the table when he sent that message and she read it....then she could go around and play hell with him lol
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