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*Jojo*
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I guess they should be attending the so-called: marriage-counselling . . . wherein they will be PAIRED with another married couples 
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deluded
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Haha... Jojo, you sure that's marriage-couselling? 
@miss uk, good idea for you to check on your sis, just to see how she's doing. Keep us updated yeah? Hope you're not losing too much sleep over it. Maybe after some time, when the situation has improved, you could pay them a visit on the pretext of visiting your niece. 
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Krubach
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On 2007-10-12 23:53:00, miss uk wrote:
Now 3 months after the babys born this sods walked out on her saying he can't cope he's not ready to be a dad and crap like that.
The friggin' bastard!!! 
He deserves to get beaten the crap out...
Besides dumping your sister, he dumps his own child?!?!?!
Being a father of a 1,5 year kid i just can't accept that.
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Miss UK
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Well *Sigh*
he came he saw got her back shes off back to him Sunday..
my sister invited me to go and see my niece one lastime this friday 
she has told me if he does it again then thats it..
apparentley he came weekend bought alot of stuff for his daughter after he didn't give my sister any money when he left her..
she says "I should bloody well think so too "
I will stay intouch with my sister but I do not want to be associated with her Husband or his family I hope she can be with me on it too.. cos if he says something like why wont your siter come here or talk to me then he may try and turn her against me
ive got abit closer to my sister since this has happened and I don't want it to be a waste of time "You get me all" 
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deluded
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I know exactly what you mean. In any case, blood is thicker than water. As long as you've made your stand clear to your sister, I'm pretty sure she'll understand. Let your her know that she can count on you anytime. I think a good, long, heart-to-heart talk would strengthen your bond with her so much more. Keep in touch with her through emails or by phone so that you know how she's doing. At the same time, you might also be able to find out from her if he bad-mouths you.
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Miss UK
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I think things might of been very different if my sister had not moved down to live with him and made him move up here,
she's 22 soon still only a kid really and whats he's done is cruel.
he's spoilt mommys boy I think but ive said it loads lol
btw she surprised me by inviting me down to see her tomorrow I will try and talk to her but it seems she's started to fall back to her oh I love him ways and is sticking up for him mother already Oh brother lol
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deluded
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Oh well, that's what love does, isn't it? It's better that she loves him than hate him you know? After all, they had a child together, they should try to make things work. I'm not quite sure what's going through his mind, but if he's such a mummy's boy, he can't be all that bad?
It's great to know your sis invited you to visit them, things may be working out after all. I don't know if it's a good idea to try and change her mind though, for the reasons I stated above. I would advise you to just keep an eye on her for now, and if things do take a turn for the worst, then that's when you should step in. It's just my personal opinion of course, but I do hope things go well for you and your sister.
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Miss UK
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Well today has gone pear shaped not only is my mother being stupid,
the husbands got the day off and has come down to see them so I say im staying put lol
shame I wont see my niece but still im also glad I don't live within my parent home anymore it's good to be 3 lol
heres a photo of my niece
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deluded
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Oh gosh! She's so adorable! Tell your sis I said that! Haha...
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Miss UK
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Yeah she's a little cutie..
Im upset shes leaving as I don't know when i'll see her again
I had more pics of her I updated my phone lastnight forgot to remove the memory card and the piccys have gone making me feel upset even more !
I hope my sister sends me more fingers crossed
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deluded
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Oh no, that's a shame! Do be careful with your data next time. Well, if you do get more pictures of her, you might wanna post them here. She's a lovely little girl! Don't be too sad about your sister leaving yeah? You can always visit them. Besides, absence makes the heart grow fonder!
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Miss UK
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I have managed to contact a few people whom I sent the photo's to and have got 2 back but the ones I took im missing
those was precious!
i'll keep intouch with my sister her husbands treading carefully with my mom atm, however my mom is saying there both to blame..
apparentley my sister liked to keep a tab on her hubby alot,
he couldn't go out see friends so what can I say 
she even started it when he collected her the weekend (oh dear)
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deluded
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Well, like i said, it'll be best they work things out themselves then. As a guy, I can understand how he dislikes being restricted. And i think I need much more personal space compared to him. But to have done what he did was no doubt irresponsible. Now that they're back together, I think they will be able to work it out. Maybe this experience will strengthen their relationship. Meanwhile, don't worry too much, and maybe with time, you'll dislike him a little less. In any case, don't let your dislike for him stop you from visiting your sister. Have a great day miss uk! It's gonna be a long day for me. Are you working today? All the best at work if you are!
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Miss UK
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Thats what we'll do just let them get about themselves lol
Im hoping my sister will come up more if my mother doesn't go about going down there all the time.
it will be along time before I speak to her husband anyway!!!!
Im looking for a job ive been off for months a year now and alots happened I need to hurry up get a job and a flat..
interviews are coming outta my ears atm so hopefully
i'll get in there soon
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deluded
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Haha... you've gotta stop your mum from visiting them, that's what you need to do! Haha... All the best in your job-hunt, miss uk!
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