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Miss UK
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My Sister got wed September last year to a guy from Bournemouth which she met by accidental text message, they hit it of also gotta add they had been living together 2 years too before they planned on getting wed etc! she moved down to BM and of last year they got married and by a month later they found out they were exspecting there first baby.
Now 3 months after the babys born this sods walked out on her saying he can't cope he's not ready to be a dad and crap like that.
his Mother has drove my sister home with her baby and her belongings and is rushing t protect her son..
what you think of that guys/girls?
it's disgusting my sister is on pills for depression luckily my mother is supporting her atm 
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Kids are not something you can ditch when the going gets tough miss UK, I had my first batch at 21 YO, and another issue 24 years later  , Kids are just treated like Washing machines by the youth of today, ie, something to have, because everyone else has one.
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Miss UK
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Exactley the thing is my sister is 21 and he's 29.
the guys a tosser and my word of advice for my sister is get on to the Child support and get them to milk him lol
and tbh I wouldn't let him see his kid if it was me but my sisters soft in the head she's even planning on getting a flat down Bournemouth now 
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tbh what an absolute penis......he should have only decided to have the child when he wa good and ready....and then getting his mum to kick her out or w.e......some people just cant take responsibility :S
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Miss UK
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He told her he was like his dad he was never ready to settle down,
his Mother sent my sister a video mesage today asking how she was and asking bout the baby the womans demented!
I have never got on with my sis but this has brought us abit closer I wanna rip his head off im dieing to phone him up and give him a piece of my mind but oviousley I can't
I wish my sister would move back to Birmingham now but she insists she loves Bournemouth what can I say *Sigh*
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yeh the guy is a wanker for doing that. He shouldnt have agreed to get married or anything. And btw i went to bournmouth last week wiv the school and its a really cool place 
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Miss UK
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I think she'd be better off here it would destroy the guy her moving back here btw, he's a twat end off...
I hope she don't go back to him cos it will keep happening !
talk-a-bout Mommys boy lol
Ps, Bournemouths ok bit old for my liking though 
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On 2007-10-13 00:20:37, miss uk wrote:
I have never got on with my sis but this has brought us abit closer I wanna rip his head off im dieing to phone him up and give him a piece of my mind but oviousley I can't
this is the part of life we dont understand. in one hand this is good(getting you and your sis closer) and in the other your sister is devastated by the monster of her ex. now, how can we know if he's a kind person wishing to come back with her? no way to know it. it's better that your sister and her baby stay with some of the family. she, being in Bournemouth, is not good for her and the babe.
regarding her ex, i wouldnt say he's sane. why a 29 years old man cant decide whether being a dad or not?
@miss: would you help your sister in these moments, ones of the worsts of her life?
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Yoruichi
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I wouldnt call a guy like that a man-a man takes responsibility for his actions and takes care of his family. is good that it braught you closer to your sister she will need the help and support just a shame the child will grow up without a father. from the sound of it the child will be better off without him. hope things work out for your sister and her baby.
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What an ar$ehole. I live in the bournemouth area and am 28 so I hope I dont know him.
Bournemouth isnt old btw. On a friday night it far from old.
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Miss UK
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My sister told me that cos his mates at work were single then he wanted that back, hes saying he's like his dad not cut out for family life etc..
he is a twat.. I would love it if she came back to Brum to live unfortuanatley she wishes to return back to that Dorset hole sorry lols..
I will show support toward her btw her babys lovely she actually seems happier my sister was saying the hubby was yelling at her infront of the baby 
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That guy's a poor excuse for a man. He should have did some thinking before he went and got married and became a father. At 29 you'd think he'd be able to show a little maturity. If he's not ready to be a dad, why only realise that after he's already become one? It's really irresponsible as it's not just about him anymore! (Sorry, I can't help feeling a little agitated here.) His mum isn't any much better either. Instead of making her son do the right thing, she drove your sister and her baby home and protects her son?
Having said that, I think it may be a good thing for your sis to get away from that family as it is quite apparent that she's not gonna get much help from them even if she were to continue staying there. I'm sorry your sister had to go through this and I wish her and her child all the best in the days ahead.
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Miss UK
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Yes his Mother drove her home came into my mothrs house said "Oh a nice big kitchen/garden" then went again w/o answering any questions to my mother or her bf... my mother is furious so is her bf..
I think my sister is better off getting settled here,
what if he decides to get a divorce months down the line he mises his kid and wants custody of her? his mother will jump to that I guess she was always interering
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What a jerk! I hope your sister will be strong and sort things out. No way should that guy get custody of the child. It'll be good to get evidence that the guy has not been doing his part as the father of the child, and also that your sister is capable of bringing up the child herself in a conducive environment.
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Miss UK
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Yep she is strong but I think she'll go running back but can I say or do Nothing really
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