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SCORPIONKING1982 Joined: Mar 11, 2003 Posts: > 500 From: Leeswood PM, WWW
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@T68iKING
Come on mate tell us the story, we all wanna hear now! |
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davio Joined: May 23, 2003 Posts: 135 PM, WWW
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my ex read my messages, stuff was misunderstood and looked bad out of context although i was innocent! so i would say don't jump to conclusions
i think honesty is the best policy (but that's cos I am a crap liar lol) you shouldn't need to sneak around if it's a strong relationship, that's my instinct. at the end of the day only you know the level of openness in your relationship, some people need to have their privacy.
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SCORPIONKING1982 Joined: Mar 11, 2003 Posts: > 500 From: Leeswood PM, WWW
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well guys it turns out my fears were confirmed i was worrying myself sick thinkin about it so I actually rang up the guy who'd sent her the messages turns out they werent seeing each other or anythin but they had kissed a few times, he didnt have a clue that she was seeing me which was fair enough. had a chat with him and sorted shit out. he told her to fook off then I rang her and had a chat about it. She cried, I shouted, the usual blah blah stuff. She said she loves me and wants to try again but im not sure I can trust her again. i told her to take a few days to think about what shes done then I'd think about it. What would u do?
Women eh, who needs em! |
9679 Joined: May 01, 2003 Posts: 21 PM |
So what u gonna do then? Do you trust her?
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SCORPIONKING1982 Joined: Mar 11, 2003 Posts: > 500 From: Leeswood PM, WWW
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dunno mate I aint decided yet. I dont trust her at the moment but with time maybe I will again, who knows!
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doctabako Joined: Feb 10, 2003 Posts: 286 From: Philippines PM |
Trust is very important in a relationship. If it were me, I wouldn't be able to look at her the same way again. Who knows what she'll be capable of the next time around.
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rsantiago Joined: May 23, 2003 Posts: 2 PM |
I thnk that if she really loves u,she wouldnt cheat on u in d 1st place:-)
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Vlammetje Joined: Mar 01, 2003 Posts: > 500 From: Den Haag PM, WWW
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If u guys EVER really TRUSTED eachother, she wouldn't be getting msgs from another guy and YOU would not need to read them.
Seems to me you'll make eachother miserable as neither one really fully commits to trusting the other. Two wrongs usually do not make a right.
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cyanx7 Joined: Jan 02, 2003 Posts: 228 From: Porto, Portugal PM |
i think scorp is taking this a bit too seriously... is this soooooooooooo important, scorp?
isn't she sorry?
forgiveness is an important part of ANY relationship... if u can't do that, u don't probably love her that much, and this is all a false question. even maybe an excuse u made inconsciently to put tha girl behind u'r back... think well before u do anything stoopid like i did, oh!, so many times, m8!
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SCORPIONKING1982 Joined: Mar 11, 2003 Posts: > 500 From: Leeswood PM, WWW
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@cyanx7
well i think its important its just been a shock thats all cus I didnt think she was the type of person to cheat. We've had a chat and its sorted now, she is sorry and I've forgiven her! Hurrah all is right with the world again, well it would be if o2 would hurry up and release the T610 but thats another story lol
myspace.com/scorpionking1982 |
mkt Joined: Dec 11, 2002 Posts: > 500 From: Poland PM |
Aaaah, been there, done that. It's easy to loose trust, but very hard to rebuild it. It's never the same again, no matter how much u try. Wish u all the best thogh |
Eva-m00 Joined: Jun 08, 2002 Posts: 364 From: Liverpool, UK PM |
@SCORPIONKING - Good luck mate hope it works out. ^_^ ~Eva
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SCORPIONKING1982 Joined: Mar 11, 2003 Posts: > 500 From: Leeswood PM, WWW
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Oh dear it all seems to have gone a bit pete tong
She's left me, boohoo. hahahaha makes me laugh man, she apologises for the messages and says she loves me but 2 days later shes left and with some other guy! women are so fickle aint they.
well that is the end of this little episode in my life, thank you all for viewing and I hope you enjoyed the show. I have been you host, Tom (SCORPIONKING) Couchman, thank you and goodnight.
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Vlammetje Joined: Mar 01, 2003 Posts: > 500 From: Den Haag PM, WWW
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Sorry to hear that Tom.
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mkt Joined: Dec 11, 2002 Posts: > 500 From: Poland PM |
So typical (not that i have experienced it ....yet) |
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