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SCORPIONKING1982 Joined: Mar 11, 2003 Posts: > 500 From: Leeswood PM, WWW
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....to read your girls txt messages? I did it last night and I found a few messages I didnt like the look of. I didnt say anythin at the time and dont know if I should or not. I got no other reason at all to suspect her of anythin but now I seen these messages I get suspicious of what she's up to.
What does the community think? Please help me!
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lazarini Joined: May 08, 2002 Posts: > 500 PM, WWW
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Well my friend u stuck ure nose where u shoud not and now u dont know what to do shure she gets suspicius loking smses what did u think they al do but still thats not an excuse for u to read them i sugest u come clean and tel her she might be a bit upset but u wil fell beter in the end and ffs m8 work on ure trust to her if she wana leave she wij do so ther is nth:in the world that can stop her. Regards Dr.Phil aka. Laz
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mkt Joined: Dec 11, 2002 Posts: > 500 From: Poland PM |
Don't tell her yet. If she's really up to something, and she will know you read those messages and you're suspicious, she's gonna hide her intentions better. Hope there's nothing to worry. Good luck!
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doctabako Joined: Feb 10, 2003 Posts: 286 From: Philippines PM |
You wouldn't want her to do the same thing would you? Just let that be your guide. Don't tell her what you did. She won't trust you the same way ever again. Good luck.:-)
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donga104 Joined: Apr 28, 2003 Posts: 17 From: Australia PM, WWW
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Tell us wat youd do if she had opened yr priv8 msgs ?
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701 Joined: Nov 26, 2002 Posts: > 500 From: Romania PM, WWW
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Coming from some1 who has been there and got it bad i think u should wait and see what happens.i mean i know it sounds bad but if i would have read her sms' it would have saved me..so unfortunatelly i didnt see it comin'.ironic how we seek sincerity huh?
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SCORPIONKING1982 Joined: Mar 11, 2003 Posts: > 500 From: Leeswood PM, WWW
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@ donga104
I wouldnt be bothered since I have nothing to hide!
I decided I aint going to tell her or confront her, i'll just carry on as usual. At least now I wont be too surprised if I find out she is up to something! I'm going to try not to get too involved with her so I dont get hurt too bad ya know.
I'll keep you posted on how things go
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Jowi Joined: Feb 21, 2002 Posts: > 500 From: Pilipinas PM, WWW
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thats why its called private |
tranquil Joined: Dec 15, 2001 Posts: > 500 From: Oslo, Norway PM |
Do you open her letters as well? It's the same thing mate!
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pawanr Joined: May 23, 2003 Posts: 146 From: Dubai, United Arab Emirates PM |
Hmm, Well what you can do the next time you around with her is, look at her phone and ask her if you can look at her phone n play with it go look at her tunes, blah blah, n then pop into the SMS Menu, & ask her, hey can i look at it (I guess u shd hv that right if shes ur girl )If she allows u, then well ur in safe hands, if she doesnt then there might be something suspicious! What Say???
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evoke Joined: Mar 05, 2002 Posts: > 500 PM |
well i would ask her definitely or u will just worry yourself sick!! my missus checks my phone all the time... clear the air m8 or u will just end up worrying about it imo..
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jellyellie Joined: Dec 27, 2002 Posts: > 500 From: England PM, WWW
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i'd go with what pawanr suggests
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T68iKING Joined: Nov 04, 2002 Posts: > 500 From: W.London PM |
listen m8, i'll tell u a funny story tomorrow about the same problem your facing, as i'm too tired to write the whole thing on my p8 ;)
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kath Joined: Apr 09, 2002 Posts: 140 From: Venus PM |
Honestly,if i was d girl n u'd confront me bout it,its normal for me to be a lil upset that u read my priv msgs. But aparently that doesnt mean i should be more piteous as if twas all ur fault that u read YOUR girl's msgs n found out somethin unexpected!.. Since as u can see, ur d 1 feeling cheated and u have d right. Y dont u tell her d truth while its not too late? Tho breakin up w/ u IF EVER SHE DOES cud only be caused by pride n guilt. So its either she'll deny it or calmly explain that u misunderstood..
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701 Joined: Nov 26, 2002 Posts: > 500 From: Romania PM, WWW
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What break-up?what confrontation?just keep ur eyes opened man..thats all
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