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Am I being funny, or *is* he being a *bit* weird |
pmerryman
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You forgot Kebabs.
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ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ
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lol Will have to say I'm off out with me bird to get drunk, have a fight, refuel with a kebab then it's back home for some dogging 
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pmerryman
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Exactly. Couldn't have of put it better myself.
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ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ
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Hmm I still don't know what to do about it, might just ignore his calls/texts, del him from msn and not talk to him again.
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QVGA
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I think you being a 'friend' with a 55 year old is also a little wierd. Atleast thats what i think
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>500
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he's defo wanting a little extra
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A L 3 X
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On 2008-08-06 15:49:20, ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ wrote:
Hmm I still don't know what to do about it, might just ignore his calls/texts, del him from msn and not talk to him again.
Just have a word with him....or dont go out all the time with him.....say no sometimes, he may think you are leading him on. TBH it really sounds like he wants u now......i think tbh though his feelings for you may have progressed as you have got closer?
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ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ
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On 2008-08-06 15:57:05, QVGA wrote:
I think you being a 'friend' with a 55 year old is also a little wierd. Atleast thats what i think
Family friend, I've known him as long as I can remember, my mum is in shows with him etc, they all like acting so they all do it together and what not.
Every time he comes round we talk, for example we talk about when we went to America with him a few years back and how it would be fun to go with him in 2010.
Been to the cinema with him, my mum, sister, bro, mums other friends etc, a big group of us.
I had no problem being friends with him because he's such a nice guy, for example he does friendly *gay* hugs, always makes me feel uncomfortable as I don't like anyone touching me and I never touch anyone else, but I overlook it because I know it's him being him.
So in that sense, it's not odd being friend with someone of that age.
I'm sure you know some of your parents friends very well who you might be able to call a friend yourself.
Infact, I have about 5-6 very good friends who were there when I was born, and I would actually class them as family rather then friends, they're all 40-50s age range.
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ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ
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On 2008-08-06 17:37:00, A L 3 X wrote:
On 2008-08-06 15:49:20, ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ wrote:
Hmm I still don't know what to do about it, might just ignore his calls/texts, del him from msn and not talk to him again.
Just have a word with him....or dont go out all the time with him.....say no sometimes, he may think you are leading him on. TBH it really sounds like he wants u now......i think tbh though his feelings for you may have progressed as you have got closer?
In the whole time that I have known him mate, which is pretty much forever...I have only ever gone out with him by myself once, and that was about 2 weeks back, been out with him loads but always with my mum or sister or other family/friends. Never just him and me.
We both wanted to see Dark Knight, so he said, I know, I want to thank you for fixing my comp many times, let me take you down to see it and we'll grab some food....my mum was in the room at the time and she knows I normally say no to most things, so said go on go and have a time, so I agreed to go.
So it's only the 1 time we done something alone, but now he seems to be pushing to do something else and fairly quickly.
Honestly, the more I think about It the more I just feel sick to the stomach, he's a 56 year old gay guy hitting on me, and my mum was right, if a 56 year old guy hit on my sister, my mum would be livid, let alone him being a family friend AND being gay.
I'm not sure weather to push him further and catch him out for being sick, you know, wait for him to say something really disgusting and rude. So we know 100% what's happening.
Or, to just block and ignore him, because IMO he has already been rude and disgusting.
I mean....I'm as straight as they come, wtf is he thinking!
I'm sure if I hit on our friends daughter who is 13 I would be looked at as sick right, that age difference is 7 years.
The age difference between him and I is 36 years lmao, and the fact he likes penis....I don't bat that way
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procterdc
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Sorry to hear this mate. When I used to work for at the Queens Hotel there was one guy in particular who took a shine to me, called Neville. Eventually I had to say something to someone because it was just too much. He kept his distance from me after that lol..
Oh and i've been offered a blank cheque to spend a night with a gay man, but i actually think/hope he was joking lol.
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amnesia
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lol, I think his feelings are growing for you.
You know what you do?
Tell him there's a girl your into and ask him for advice 
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A L 3 X
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Tbh....might be worth talking to him again on MSN or going out with him once more....it seems hes becoming more daring so soon you will know....you dont want to upset him if he was indeed just being very very friendly
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ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ
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Yer imagine if it is him just being overly friendly and joking, he's not too good with comps at all, so he could maybe do doing it in his eyes a joking way?
But to me it's coming across as something more.
Although, in either case, if I said anything he'd, and others, would probably just say "oh nono not at all I was just joking about sorry".
Though tbh I think I'm kidding myself, the comments he made and observations about my body he noticed are way to much, even when I'm joking around with people I wouldn't say things such as "come round and slap that skinny bum", because it's very suggestive/flirtatious.
I have nothing at all against gay people, no one get me wrong here, why would I go to the cinema with him if I did.
It's the fact he's 36 years older, a family friend, and I'm straight as straight can be.
My my, what is he playing at.
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Caspa
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funny situation mate...
I reckon you just need to be blunt with him and say 'a little less with the gay comments mate!'
it can be done lightheartedly but the message will be clear...
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ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ
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Yer I get how you mean, sort of blunt but in a mate kind of way, might be the best way.
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Posted: 2008-08-06 12:08
