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Luke-the-magic-man
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how old are you/her?
Also worth noting that you can never give a women everything she want's and treat her really good, theres no point as it's not what they want.
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Paul_C
Joined: Dec 03, 2003
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You want my advice? you might not like it! Walk away, I have been in a similar situation but over a much longer time period, ultimatly the depression will drive you away or drag you down too  |
LesleyAnn
Joined: Oct 12, 2006
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guys, i hope you don't mind me butting in on your thread!
ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ i think your girlie is seriously attention seeking. she's only 19 and imo there have been some difficulties, maybe at home, work, with other boyfriends... that she hasn't found a way to deal with. the cutting-u-off on msn is the ultimate test, but imo she punishes herself too! best to wait to see if she comes back to u. check to see if u r still blocked in a few days... but this will be an even more difficult time. if u contact her u run the risk of saying the wrong thing and getting blocked again!
i really hope u have a good night out with the girls! 
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fatreg
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ah, the female logic, the mind boggles. Could be anything mate, she may think that you want a go as she's "low", as people have said, see how things pan out and see what happens, if she realises that she has made a mistake and comes back it's all good, if not, it was never meant to be.
But as mweb said, you have to throw lots of darts, always alway remember that there are plenty more fish in the sea, I know it's hard to keep that in mind when something you hold close has gone but it's true fella, I'm mid 20s and I still haven't found Miss Right (Well, except for Wifey, she's brill) but you plod on, live each day as it comes something somewhen will happen..
as for that party... why are you still here? get there! it was planned before Wed night I take it? if so, of course you go, you don't undo plans all because someone is there, face "problems" don't run away from them! (and there's another 4 girls there!!!!!)
Good luck fella
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haynesycop
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Go to the party, your not going out with her so go out and have a nice time. It sounds like she has issues that she needs to sort out, you've done nothing wrong at all. Leave her be and let her come to you, if that is what she wants. There is somewhere out there for everyone just takes some people longer than others to find them. Men are from venus and women are from mars, the day we understand each other is the day the world ends, will always be the same.
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fatreg
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On 2008-02-16 19:42:09, haynesycop wrote:
Men are from venus and women are from mars
nonononon... Men are from Venus, Women like what Mars make! 
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haynesycop
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I'll never understand men completely it's all too confusing but i can understand what idiots some women are, can't be doing with all the mind games crap that some women do, what is with that. Sometimes i think i should have been a bloke hehe.
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fatreg
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you don't need to fully understand men so it's all good! you will understand the one you want as much as you need to!
you a man? hmmmm it'd be a waste of a lovely female 
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Muhammad-Oli
Joined: Jun 13, 2004
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On 2008-02-16 16:20:49, ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ wrote:
Thanks guys, sounds silly but I actually feel better lol, I was sitting here all yesterday thinking about it all, now other people know and i realise it's not really something i've done I feel a bit better.
Just wondering are you all still fairly young? I turned 20 in November. (is that young or old lol). she's 19.
I'm sh*tting myself about tonight lmao, I think my mate basically realised that i've been down and that's why he's only invited me out with loads of girls, as you said, to take my mind of things.
I never know what to say though, thass why I plan to be nice and drunk before I go, drinking starts at 6 lol. Talking to 1 girl, with a mate is fine, but he's there with this girl he's seeing....and i'm gunna have to do stuff with about 5 other girls who i never met.
You know the shy type, who sits there, does sod all then goes home...well that's basically me lol, not sure what i'm going to do tonight, I don't plan to think about it. The plan is, leave my phone at home (no stupid drunken calls to people that way), go out and then just wake up in the morning and hope my trousers are still on lmao.
But I agree, girls always say it's men who loose the plot etc, they don't have a clue what they're doing to us lol.
I am 19 and my girlfriend is 17 lol. I find when this sort of thing happens, your take on relationships matures pretty quickly.
How did your night out go mate? I'm a bit like that too when I go out (the quiet type). I'm louder when I don't drink lol.
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ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ
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A lot of good advice
Night was, well...dunno it wasn't good but i liked it still.
I got completely drunk and chipped my tooth on a wine bottle
Got in about 1am and she was online, didn't say to much as i couldn't really type lol, but she's on now and still just not talking much at all, so hey ho i guess, like someone said if it wasn't meant to be then it just wasn't.
Won't stop me thinking about her for a while though.
All's i ended up doing last night was getting drunk and spent most of the night asking people why she wont talk to me lol, oops.
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fatreg
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a while could be a while fella..
I split with an ex 3 years ago now, and still not a day goes by where I don't think of her..
glad you had a good night though
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ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ
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I hope it's not that long lol, it drains you, thinking about it all the time, I end up getting nothing done.
My tooth is annoying lol, it's sharp and to me it looks silly, mum and sister say it's noticeable, but it sure as hell is to me lol grrrr.
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LesleyAnn
Joined: Oct 12, 2006
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yeah ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ keep yourself as distracted as possible... to help u get through this stage. don't envy u one bit...
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ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ
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Thanks LesleyAnn
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ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ
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Hey you know I went to that party and got drunk....the guy i went with has told my *mates* that when i got in i drove 10 miles to kessingland drunk to be with my mates X.
I couldn't get my mouse to work for 20mins, how the fook and why the fook would I drive.
I don't care he's telling people I went to see this girl because she's a friend, but we were both like, i didn't see her at all i not seen her since Jan.
I'm livid that he told people i drank drove or however it's said....i had friends killed by someone who drunk drove and for him to tell people i was as careless as that upsets me.
Anyway, blocked em all on msn and not seen em in weeks, f*ck em all, start again I say!
Someone once said a friend is someone you can call at 4am.....none of them answered the phone when i called them at 4.
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