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zuhib
Joined: Apr 20, 2003
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From: z_zaffar@hotmail.com
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duh!! ths is serious guys!!....i need some sensible advices....its no joke!
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arien617
Joined: Feb 01, 2006
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Well there are some things that you have to make up your own mind on...
for example to use proper English instead of that shorthand crap.
but more to the point, an online community is hardly the place to ask personal relationship questions in my opinion.
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Burgaz
Joined: Mar 25, 2004
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From: Cwmbranistan, S. Wales
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If you don't know enough about how you feel at the age of 23 then you need some serious help...
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lhaizza
Joined: Oct 16, 2007
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You'll never know that you're inlove if you dont give it a try
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mcrosser
Joined: Oct 11, 2005
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From: Peru
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hi, I just wanted to say, even if your eyes can't see her as pretty, if she's beautiful at heart, that is what stays throught the years because the skin wears of. True love is the one that lasts. She knows you (perhaps) a lot more than the beautiful girl, even some sides of your personality you don't usually show everyone (friends are like that), so if you come across an argument, she has the upper hand because she knows how you react and if she trully loves you, you will get to an agreement easier maybe than other girls to whom some of your reactins are new.
In conclusion, it really is a serious decision, remember don't do it to correspond her love and make her feel good, but do it (if you decide to) because you have maturely analyzed your feelings and understand that love is something learned and not what you feel in a specific moment. Because some people think that when they stop feeling atraction for their partner, love has ended and that's not right.
Good luck
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QVGA
Joined: May 23, 2006
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From: Pakistan
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Let me make something crystal clear: you DO NOT start loving someone just because they love you too. Sure your BF loves you, that doesn't entitle you to love her too. If you don't then you don't, it doesn't matter if she does. Its like you're trying to be 'nice' by loving her back.
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Twometre
Joined: May 12, 2007
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From: Manzini, Swaziland
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On 2008-01-21 11:37:59, leeboy13 wrote:
get stuck in....... youre young, enjoy youreself 
its better to regret things youve done, than things you didnt do......
One question mate, How do you trap a monkey?
I can only say that listen to everybody, trust nobody and follow your heart. Remember that no one is perfect but true love is to love the imperfect perfeclty and from all imperfactions to form the image of your desires.
good luck
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kenoby
Joined: Dec 17, 2007
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zuhib
Joined: Apr 20, 2003
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From: z_zaffar@hotmail.com
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thnx guys!!! i really really appreciated ur advices...i guess i m just being mayb nice to her by loving her back cuz shes just so into me!! v have been frnds fr like 3 years nw...she understands me really well!!...sometimes i do try to avoid her just to make sure if i miss her or nt!...mayb i'll definitely feel guilty if i leave her just bcuz she doesn't look pretty to my eyes!....let me put it this way tht my heart loves her bt my mind doesn't excepts!!....mayb i did find true love bt i guess i m just blind!
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adnansanni
Joined: Dec 07, 2006
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From: Bangladesh
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You should ask first the girl whom you love, because some day you will think why you wouldn't ask her. Your friend loves you that not mean that you have to love her. When someone falls in love then he/she doesn't care to love by other one. You said you are friends for 2/3 years. So you know her very well, now try to know something about other girl whom you love. Then think who is best for you and the relationship will remain. Just one thing remember my friend, good looking doesn't work all time if she doesn't care about you. |
Twometre
Joined: May 12, 2007
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From: Manzini, Swaziland
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On 2008-01-22 15:44:19, zuhib wrote:
thnx guys!!! i really really appreciated ur advices...i guess i m just being mayb nice to her by loving her back cuz shes just so into me!! v have been frnds fr like 3 years nw...she understands me really well!!...sometimes i do try to avoid her just to make sure if i miss her or nt!...mayb i'll definitely feel guilty if i leave her just bcuz she doesn't look pretty to my eyes!....let me put it this way tht my heart loves her bt my mind doesn't excepts!!....mayb i did find true love bt i guess i m just blind!
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If a leopardwas given the powerto possess wing mate, surely and definately we would to stop it from flying. Unless I am wrong my friend.
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Muhammad-Oli
Joined: Jun 13, 2004
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From: The NZ of L
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Hey man, sounds like a bit of a problem you have there.
Is your friend (the one who loves you) your girlfriend? If so, I would stick with her. But if she is not, and to you she is just your best friend, then there is no need to hold yourself back. You can't be with her just because she wants you, you have to do what you want to do.
Have you had other girlfriends recently? If you have, then your friend should be used to it and so there shouldn't be too much of a problem with pursuing the other girl. She may be a little annoyed or upset but if she truly loves you, then she will stick around.
You seem young, and you've got your whole life ahead of you. See how the other girl goes and if it doesn't work out, I think your friend will still be around. Perhaps then you can give that side a chance.
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