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zuhib
Joined: Apr 20, 2003
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From: z_zaffar@hotmail.com
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hey guys just wanted have some advice on a personal problem here....the prob is tht my bestfriend is in luv with me...she told me bt i m confused cuz i like another girl whome i haven't told tht i like her!...she attracts me physically as oppose to my frnd whose n average lukin girl! bt i do have a soft corner fr me frnd too cuz v r bestest ov frnds....i'll b frank here cuz i'm confused cuz at ths age (23) physical attraction is more rather thn understanding wht luv actually is!!....need some advices nw
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leeboy13
Joined: Sep 28, 2005
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From: Brissle - dodgy accients
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get stuck in....... youre young, enjoy youreself 
its better to regret things youve done, than things you didnt do...... |
goldenface
Joined: Dec 17, 2003
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From: Liverpool City Centre
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Good advice for us all leeboy. 
Go after the girl you fancy.
'Fortune favours the Brave', as another saying goes.
Add to that, 'Faint heart never won fair maiden'.
Ok, I'll shut it now.
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kenoby
Joined: Dec 17, 2007
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Depends how good friend she is to you. You can forget about the friendship if you go for it.
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zuhib
Joined: Apr 20, 2003
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dude shes my bestfriend!...i haven't told her tht i luv her so its nt final...n i recently was told by another friend ov mine tht she even rejected a guy just bcuz ov me!....n later i confirmed it! n i myself have a soft corner fr her in my heart!....m i being a fool leaving her bcuz ov her average luks fr a girl whome i dunnno if she likes me or nt!!!
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kenoby
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Do as you think or feel. Later on you will regret if you didn't. I just said, if you go for your friend than you can forget about the friendship. Which one is more important is up to you. Then again, Somebody once said to me "It is better to have a canarian in your hand than a pigeon on the tree branch" |
Cycovision
Joined: Nov 30, 2003
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Normally I would start saying things like 'Looks aren't everything' etc. but in your case, I think you must go with your heart. If you don't find your friend attractive then it would be cruel and pointless to start something with her because it probably won't last.
As kenobi says, it would be a sure fire way to destroy the friendship if you're not fully committed to her.
Having said that though, Crosby, Stills, Nash and young once sang "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with"...
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kenoby
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@Cycovision, wow. Thoughtful one.. |
Chartreuse Eyes
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@zuhib, This world is full with pretty girls  as you say that you are not sure just because the girl you think you are in love wid is pretty then your best friend? What if in future you met a more beautiful girl then you recent love , would you still stick to your girl or......
If still you would like to be wid your girl then you are in love man otherwise its just a beauty attraction. You just need to be honest with your feelings and thats it. Besides all i know is love has no care for looks, like a mother loves her kid regardless beauty/looks.
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zuhib
Joined: Apr 20, 2003
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From: z_zaffar@hotmail.com
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ur quiet rite....but call me crazy cuz v ppl always wait fr a perfect 1...i dunno if i m being a fool to leave someone who luvs me..cuz mayb i wont find nyone who will luv me truly as she does!....n also i dunno if the girl i like wud b able to give me the same luv as she gives it to me!
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fatevdestiny
Joined: Oct 22, 2007
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From: Glasgow
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As other said mate you have to make that decision on your own as its you who will be living with it.
I have been with my gf for over 3 years now and tbh she aint just my gf, she is like my best friend aswell. We do everything together and we can talk to each other about anything at all, even the slightest thing. Its just amazing.
So give it a bit of thought because that friend of yours might be the the one that your looking for in life
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zuhib
Joined: Apr 20, 2003
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cumon guys needs some more advices!!...before i make a decision!
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methylated_spirit
Joined: Jul 07, 2004
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From: Bonnie Scotland
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Reminds me of an old Scottish fable:
There is a man who has three girlfriends, but he does not know which one to marry. So, he decides to give each one £5,000 and see how each of them spends it.
The first one goes out and gets a total make-over with the money. She gets new clothes, a new hairdo, manicure, pedicure, the works, and tells the man, "I spent the money so I could look pretty for you because I love you so much."
The second one went out and bought new golf clubs, a CD player, a television, and a stereo and gives them to the man. She says, "I bought these gifts for you with the money because I love you so much."
The third one takes the £5,000 and invests it in the stock market, doubles her investment, returns the £5,000 to the man and reinvests the rest. She says, "I am investing the rest of the money for our future because I love you so much."
The man thought long and hard about how each of the women spent the money and made a conclusion ...... he married the one with the biggest boobs !!!
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fatevdestiny
Joined: Oct 22, 2007
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^^^ Haha a aint heard that one before meths
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Nanu
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Go for the one with the cleanest feet, feet can say a lot about a woman and dirty smelly feet can be a real put off!
Just my opinion!
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