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astvilla99
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I have been going out with this girl for a month and have only seen her 3 times and she always says she will ring me back and she doesnt. I have told her a few times that this annoys me and still she did it again today. Please help. What should i do about this?
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plasmadog
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Hey, ask mince and meths, they have a regular agony aunt thread. And they're good.
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marlonxp
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It apears she does not show much interest in either that or she is realy busy. Try doing the same to her.:-D
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Residentevil
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Can you say:"Red Flag"
Tough times don't last, tough people do!
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tonyitalian
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yeh i would do the same to her! show her some attitude!
good luck
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Ayush
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3 is good :-D art thou greedy?
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*Jojo*
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Try changing your fone to an SE S700 . . . Quite confusing here dude, going out for a "MONTH" and only have seen her "THREE" times - what's your calendar mate, what I know is that there are 30 or 31 days in a month 
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govigov
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A job for mince, meth and kim.... You should really try their thread.
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kimcheeboi
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On 2004-09-25 06:20:02, astvilla99 wrote:
I have been going out with this girl for a month and have only seen her 3 times and she always says she will ring me back and she doesnt. I have told her a few times that this annoys me and still she did it again today. Please help. What should i do about this?
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Are you stupid dude?
If she doesn't call you back, that means she has no respect for you as an individual, so tell her to bugger off and have a good life.
I can't believe you're still going out with this girl, man!
btw she's probably doing it because she wants to keep you on a string, and if you keep going out with this girl, you're gonna find yourself buying her things (expensive and useless things!) and not getting much from it.
Go find another girl.
pps check out mince meths advice thread 
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SCORPIONKING1982
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whatever you do dont chase this girl mate! dont call her,txt her or anything, if she hasnt got in touch in a week then forget it, shes not interested!
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baseballfanz
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Yeah don't waste your times on her. 3 times a week is good 3 times a month is not. You sure you guys are dating? |
Sammy_boy
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Yeah, don't contact her and see if she contacts you. She sounds like she's either wasting your time or stringing you along. Let her go, and keep an eye out for a decent girl that cares for you/loves you properly.
Relationships are a two-way thing, not one-way, as this one appears to be.
"All it takes for evil to flourish is for good men to do nothing" - Edmund Burke
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switchbitch
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Forget mince and meths their thread is just crappy tongue in cheek humour. This subject has actually been covered in my own thread in garbage, "Switchbitch's guide to the universe" so have a look in there. Sounds like this girl is takin you for a ride mate, the only dignified way out of this is to give her the silent treatment. Dont call her, and dont answer if she calls you. As difficult as it may be, this is the only tried and trusted method of really getting this girls attention. Act as if you really dont care about the relationship, and if she likes you, she will come running, and if she doesnt like you, at least you have your dignity. This sounds very simple, but i promise you it works.
Go check out my thread.
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mad4mobiles
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Foot ring her and them she wont ring you and after it all you will be glad that you done the right thing
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switchbitch
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More advice:
1) Have you ever been "nice" to a woman that just wants to be "your friend"?
2) Do you have trouble saying "no" to attractive women -
especially the ones you like?
3) Do you tend to become "nicer and nicer" to a girl over
a period of time?
4) Has any woman ever stopped seeing you after a few dates?
5) Have you ever complimented a woman...only to have her walk away and show no interest...or even look annoyed?
6) Have you ever had an attractive woman coming to you to WHINE about the abuses she has to take from the JERK she is dating?
If you've answered "yes" to any of these questions...then
I've got something to tell you:
WOMEN DON'T RESPECT YOU...
...I am sorry, but it's true. This is EXCATLY why you aren't having success with women...because they don't respect
you as a man. (I know this sounds painful - but it's true.)
And here's the bottom line: Women are ONLY attracted
to guys they RESPECT.
Don't believe me? You know...it's the same for guys too:
We are only attracted to girls we respect. As men, we
can have sex with hot sluts...but we never STAY with them
because we don't respect them at all. So...if a girl tries
to have sex with us in order to seduce us because she thinks guys are just after sex, she's going to be in a nasty surprise.
Sure...we may have sex with them or even fall for her in the short run...but over time, we're going to lose respect and
eventually dump her because she's just "too easy".
The same applies to dating women. We can shower them
with tons of love and care. We can buy them expensive gifts and drive them to work everyday. We can take care of them when they are depressed and give them a shoulder to cry on.
We can give them all the "nice things" in life. But guess what?
They are not going to become any more attracted to us.
Just like men don't respect women that are too easy,
women don't respect men that are too "nice".
So how do we come to respect a member of the opposite sex? How do we get hot women to respect us? Well, according to psychologists, our respect of other people is usually based on our perception of the person's independence and self-reliance.
For example, we're drawn towards leaders and other "powerful" people because they are strong and independent.
The opposite is also true. The "clingier" a person is,
the less respect we have for them. Would you want your
girlfriend to call you 10 times a day...day after day...
week after week...year after year?
So...in a nutshell...here's the lesson....
HAVE SOME BACKBONE SO WOMEN CAN START GIVING YOU THE RESPECT YOU DESERVE!!!
I am serious. Start walking around with a SPINE...
especially when you're around attractive women. Trust me, as soon as you stop letting women walk all over you, they're going to respect you and like you more.
Here are some practical tips on how to GET A SPINE:
1) Learn To Say "No": Not in an angry way, but in a calm and almost "indifferent" manner. (Real men never get angry. Real men put women back into their places by saying “no” to them calmly. )
Examples:
"No, dear. We're not going to that restaurant tonight."
"No, I don't want to wait for you to call me 2 hours before the movie to see if you're going. If you can't come, tell me now so I can make other plans or go with someone else."
2) Don't Be Too Nice: If you're the type of guy that likes to "be nice" to women and buy them gifts and take them out to dinner, I want you to stop now. Stop letting them order you around. Stop volunteering to "do things for them". Every time you fetch her bottle for her or give her a ride home, she's going to see you MORE as a wussy FRIEND instead of a potential LOVER, get it?
3) Be Prepared To Walk: If you aren't getting what you want from a girl, there's no use hanging around. If you aren't happy in a relationship, break out of it. Having this
attitude will give you A LOT of power. Once women know that you CAN and WILL walk out if necessary, they won't take you for granted anymore.
4) Plan Out Dates: This is actually the easiest way to
demonstrate your leadership and independence. Have the whole date planned out before you go. Stay in control and just give her a good night out. Remember that people are drawn towards those that have a CLEAR sense of where they're going...
so if you plan everything ahead...your date is going to
respect you more.
5) Be Decisive: If a girl asks you whether you would like
to go for dinner or a play, don't say, "Whatever you like."
Give a REAL answer. Every time you give the "let's do
whatever you like, darling" kind of answer, you're handing your power over to HER. Sooner or later, she's going to stop respecting you as an equal partner.
6) Don't Care About What She Thinks Of You: Remember that your job is to ATTRACT her, not to PLEASE her. Don't let her know that you care what they think of you at all. The moment a girl knows you rely on her opinion of you, she's going to lose respect. Here's the bottom line: women are only attracted to guys they respect, and guys that try too
hard to please women lose their respect over time!
7) Learn The Dating Game: Women respect guys that KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING. Think about it...if you were a woman, would you go for a guy that stuttered and sounded not very confident...or a guy that knew EXCATLY how to approach you, WHAT to say to you...and HOW to say it?
Remember that women are NATURALLY ATTRACTED to guys they RESPECT. This means POWERFUL, CONFIDENT, and INDEPENDENT
guys that make them feel weak in their knees...
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