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Moving out in a year! Please help! |
kimcheeboi
Joined: Dec 19, 2003
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I'm planning to move out in 1 year-can anybody offer some useful advice? This is serious-i want nothing to do with my parents after i turn 18. Please help me out!
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BobaFett
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From: Kamino (wish it would be Lund)
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Are u ready to manage your life on your own? I did the same once, not so easy as u might imagine it! What will be your first step?
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kimcheeboi
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First step? Plan out a budget, get a full time job, save up a couple thousand dollars... Thanks @mod who took out that last crap post by me.
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BobaFett
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One more thing, responsibility. U have to face a lot of things, the word mentioned above will have a new meaning in your life. The hard thing isnt to get a job, find a flat, more to keep all these! Same as in a relationship. U can get everybody, but are u able to keep to her and are u able to trust? Thats what counts.
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Ayush
Joined: Sep 12, 2003
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From: Hyderabad, india
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@Kimchee dont think its that easy! Hav u finished ur education? Are u ready for a career? There are a load of stuff! Even i have clashes wid my parents! But there support is essential... Be strong..get a part time job (u finished skool)? @bob what had u done eh ? 
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kimcheeboi
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I'm sorry guys but things at home are really bad. I have to move out, and i'm determined to finish my education without my parents. It'll be extremely difficult but i am sure this is what i'm going to do.
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Ayush
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From: Hyderabad, india
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ok so what happened? tell u we can sort it out Dont worry even situation with me keeps going up and down Which grade u in?
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BobaFett
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@ayush went to work to my favourite city, it amazed since my childhood.
@kim did u try fix the situation before u made this decision? Its not only a usually teenager fight against the parents, is it?
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Ayush
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You mean it is usual And u dont know how hard it is 2 make money
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kimcheeboi
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Ok here's the situation- i have major issues with my mom. Basically we haven't had a constructive chat for about 1 year. Every time i say something she starts yelling. For example i said that despite his profanity eminem's lyrics seems a lot like the antiwar 70s songs. Them for the next hour she yelled at me for being immoral because i enjoy listenin to rap and don't believe in god (HER god) and stuff. That is my daily life.
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Vlammetje
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guys... not any of our busines is it? 
kim: think long and hard how much money you will need on a monthly basis for housing, food, clothing, transportation and tuition. Leave nothing out. Start noting down NOW how much you spend for all 'daily' stuff such as food and laundry and such.
What kind of job are we talking about?
Are you planning on full time school and part time job, or part time school and full time job?
Try finding roommates (share the rent )
It won't be easy mate... if you're determined to do it all by yourself.
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kimcheeboi
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@everyone thanks for your help, i really appreciate it. I've been adding up my expenses and saving up money, i think i can get a job at a hospital (i have the floor supervisor's recommendation) etc. This is going to be hard.:-l
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BobaFett
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@kim try to fix it with her. That must be the first step. If u cannot, at least u can say yourself u gave a chance.
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kimcheeboi
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I've been trying for the last 6 months-actually yesterday was 6 months i've been trying to improve the situation. I've really had too much and i'm tired of taking this crap.
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BobaFett
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@kim its your life, its your decision. Be wise, think always twice. U know where to find me if it is. Good luck.
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Posted: 2004-04-25 08:41
