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kanwal_diku
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Posted: 2004-02-17 15:31
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sex appeal ,intelligence or reliabilty .
BobaFett
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Posted: 2004-02-17 15:45
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I like if she is d total opposite of me, so we can constantly discuss a lot of things. D things u wrote r important, but i think d basic of a relationship r trust and undarstanding each other.

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kanwal_diku
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Posted: 2004-02-17 17:31
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ya thats what i wrote.intelligence refers to the understanding and reliability refers to the trust.
BobaFett
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Posted: 2004-02-17 18:21
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What about u? Did u find d right 1?

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snap-hiss
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Posted: 2004-02-17 18:56
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All 3.


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Vlammetje
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Posted: 2004-02-17 22:17
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reliability is NOT the same as 2-way trust in a relationship imho.

and trust is what I would rate among the highest.
BobaFett
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Posted: 2004-02-17 22:22
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Trust is a hard thing, cos u have 2 trust in urself in d same way as in ur partner and she or he must 2 face d same. Its d only way it works. Trust urself 2 make u trusted.

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Fritz24
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Posted: 2004-02-17 22:23
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Honesty, intelligence, attractiveness (to me at least), wit, charm and affection.

And I may just have found such a one
*Jojo*
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Posted: 2004-02-18 15:00
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Well for me, it's just very difficult to say, but from what I have learned from my personal experience - ladies are 'all' the same, or maybe majority of them when it comes to complexity compared to that of the men . . . See what I'm trying to relay here !


Krubach
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Posted: 2004-02-18 15:02
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@jojo
You're right. Women should bring an instructions manual. It's too complicated...

Oh-oh! Vlamm is going to kill me... [addsig]
gforce23
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Posted: 2004-02-18 15:03
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She should be a red hot babe.

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Alf Nif
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Posted: 2004-02-18 15:03
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I've learned that what you search for as a man (even if you don't think of it) is someone who's like your father.

I don't know how it is in the man / woman or woman / woman relationships if the partner is like the mother och father but it seems correct in man / man relationships.
Alf Nif
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Posted: 2004-02-18 15:09
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A man searches a partner (male or female) who resembles their father???


Krubach
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Posted: 2004-02-18 15:13
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@seinusagi


You're completely wrong.
Girls look for a man who resembles their father.
Boys look for a woman who resembles their Mother.

This is described as two behaviours in psicology.
I just know the portuguese term for the boy's behaviour it's named "Complexo de Édipo", based on greek mithology i think.
The long story short is:
When king's son was born, a witch said that the kid would kill his father and marry his mother.
By earing this, the king abondoned his son.
The kid was adopted by another king that was an enemy of his father (he oubviously didn't know who the kid's father was).
Later the kid became king.
He conquered his real father's kingdom, and killed him.
And then married his mother.

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Posted: 2004-02-18 15:17
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@gforce23 - A real red hot babe ? Will this one do ?


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