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The girl is dating someone else. Advice needed please |
brownie1989
Joined: Feb 23, 2005
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From: Near Stoke City FC!!!! WOOOOOO
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Need your help again that girl i have been posting about the one i have liked for 5 months and that i fell in love with. I have just read on her facebook messages off another guy saying that they are proper going out. Well obviously my heart sank. My dad saw me in the front room and he didn't know anything was wrong but he knew i was putting a brave face on. Truth is i am in love with this girl. We see each other all the time at uni and she is so hot. I love her smile and laugh. She will surely keep her distance from me when we go back. But i dont want to lose her as a mate. Any advice? Also should i facebook chat her for the two weeks we are off uni or just leave her for a while.
[ This Message was edited by: brownie1989 on 2009-04-15 23:36 ] Current phone: w595!
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Soul.Survivor™
Joined: Nov 27, 2008
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Leave her to it...Women love attention...Start ignoring her for a bit and she'll come back and start chatting to you herself! |
badassmam
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I say leave her until you meet face to face. If you see her, keep it short and sweet so no long or deep conversations. You have to look happy even though she is with someone else. You have to show that she isn't that hot and that you're over her by giving the impression that things are great without her. Whatever she feels, she will still wonder why you are so happy and cool.
Also, ask her what her boyfriend is like and be a bit cheeky i.e. if she has had her hair done say, "Wow, your hair looks amazing but I guess your boyfriend is always saying that". Get the tone right, smile and laugh. She'll say, "Aww, thank you" etc. Now she has you to compare with her boyfriend and the fact that you (the cool, calm stud that is happy without her) is saying this, she will always be happy to see you.
I am single and work with many women. I'm not looking for a girlfriend at all but a few well timed complements go a long way. Women will remember the nice things you say and will appreciate you if make them smile and feel good about themselves. I never go so far that they think that I want them because it would be cruel to lead them on so I say that I'm religious etc.
Stick to the little complements, it'll make you seem mysterious and she will come looking for you just for your sweet talk. Keep your ear to the ground as well i.e. if you year that she is doing extra time at the gym tell her that you think she has lost weight. Notice the little things. Whatever happens and regardless of you winning her back or not, you will definately be noticed and hopefully you will definately pull a lot of girls, possibly even better than her. |
aquared29
Joined: Dec 07, 2008
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 show her that your the man more than anyone else for her.
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brownie1989
Joined: Feb 23, 2005
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From: Near Stoke City FC!!!! WOOOOOO
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Thanks all. I am just praying she is ok with me being her mate for now. Guess i gotta try put my mind off it |
brownie1989
Joined: Feb 23, 2005
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From: Near Stoke City FC!!!! WOOOOOO
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On 2009-04-16 00:59:29, |I.H| wrote:
Leave her to it...Women love attention...Start ignoring her for a bit and she'll come back and start chatting to you herself!
mate you are a genious. i was on msn i i didnt start a convo hith her for the first time ever. then like 10 minutes later she started one. i thank you so much man
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brownlad007
Joined: Jul 22, 2005
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From: The Punjab, Wolverhampton UK.
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LOL what a p*ssy. WTF is wrong with you. Your getting "P*ssy Whipped" |
voda_jon
Joined: Nov 28, 2004
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am wit brownlad on this... u av bigger issues if u need to come onto a mobile phone forum to ask for advice about girls... in fact comin on the net and asking for advice about girls is funny in general.
just go out an enjoy ur life... the right girl will turn up! |
tetouan
Joined: Apr 15, 2009
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Simply leave her
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jcwhite_uk
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On 2009-04-16 13:33:54, tetouan wrote:
Simply leave her
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He's not with her. Thats the problem.
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brownlad007
Joined: Jul 22, 2005
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From: The Punjab, Wolverhampton UK.
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Why you being a b*tch for?? Secondly like voda said why you got to go on a mobile phone forum to find advise. Just leave her alone, she clearly doesnt like you.
I just had a quick look on the forum to see whats new. All there is is people crying over girls, want to kill themselves because they lost a best friend and some other g*y sh*t.
Some of you need to get a life by moving away from your monitor once in a while. And some of you need to go outside with all these bonds you've made with "online buddies"
Cant believe what the worlds come to these days. MAN UP!!!
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tranced
Joined: Jan 19, 2006
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From: Santo Domingo, wonDeRland
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some have feelings
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RyaN
Joined: Jun 24, 2002
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From: By the hill, Sussex
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@brownlad007
Woah down boy! I understand where you are coming from, i really do, and i agree with your points (although a little harsh - but to the point!) however i also think that whilst you are saying ''All there is is people crying over girls, etc etc etc'' you are also categorising yourself - as someone that's coming on a forum to vent anger lol
As for the OP - if someone doesnt fancy you, they just dont fancy you. End of. And tbh - it's called puppy love (a crush etc) not real love...so dont get hung up about this one bird. You cant say you love someone without having actually been with them before 
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brownlad007
Joined: Jul 22, 2005
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From: The Punjab, Wolverhampton UK.
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lol. No i dont just come on here to vent my anger. Im just going to stick to posting when i want to buy/sell a phone. It p*sses me off when people are crying about little petty things. Just be a man about things. |
Rookwise
Joined: Mar 22, 2004
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Get over it mate. Loads more out there. Get some money together and have a good night out in castle lol. Or go up Cobridge and blow some money on a few lol.
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Posted: 2009-04-16 00:34
All we need now is a little patience 
