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Bonovox
Joined: Apr 13, 2008
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Oh my god people i just met the most gorgeous woman i ever seen. Its crazy and im in a spin. Anyway her name is Carlie. We met 4 months ago at a bus stop(funny how people meet eh). Now i recently split up with my girlfriend. Anyway she moved to another area and after meeting up at the same bus stop every night from work she was now moving. I was sad. I gave her my mobile number. I heard nothing for weeks and weeks. I gave up. Then all of a sudden at 10am this morning i recieve a text from her. She says she has split up with her boyfriend 6 weeks ago but is now pregnant. Oh my god i thought. Anyway her boyfriend was a complete arse and told her to get rid of the baby or he will leave. She dumped him and kept the baby. Now she has lost her job is on her own and lost her flat. Now living in a hostel. Not a good christmas or new year for her. Anyway what im thinking is why did she not contact me before. Is she going to use me and leave me holding the baby. Well i wont let that happen. I was her friend for a good while and i told her how i feel. Now she has no one and she suddenly contacts me. Should i take that as good or bad? Her parents dont wanna know her she is truly on her own. I wanna be there for her and even stand by her in a relationship and take that child as my own. But im also so weary about the situation i dont wanna be made a fool of or taken for granted. What you guys think what should i do? Should i just play things by ear? Just be there for her and see what happens? She is so sexy and pretty i was shocked when i recieved the text this morning. I was thinking WOW DOES THIS GORGEOUS STUNNING WOMAN REALLY WANT ME. By the way im 37 in 2 weeks she is 25. HELP!
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Rookwise
Joined: Mar 22, 2004
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From: UK. Phone:Samsung Galaxy A54 5
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I would go on the side of caution to start with. Be there for her and help her IF she wants the help.Her emotions will be all over the place atm so one thing could be right at one time and not right the next.
Just be a helping/supporting close friend for now and see what happens before you rush into anything.Btw i'm 31 with 2 children and have also bought up other peoples children in previous relationships so do have some experience. |
Burgaz
Joined: Mar 25, 2004
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From: Cwmbranistan, S. Wales
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I'm sorry but i really can't believe you're 37 and asking relationship and life advice on a forum dominated by phone geeks!!! 
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arien617
Joined: Feb 01, 2006
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On 2009-01-03 20:02:32, Burgaz wrote:
I'm sorry but i really can't believe you're 37 and asking relationship and life advice on a forum dominated by phone geeks!!!
adding to that, our average age of 22, probably.
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Bonovox
Joined: Apr 13, 2008
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Lol well i see alot of different threads on this site and good people who help each other or give advice. Just cos we are all phone geeks myself included does not mean we are all stupid or have no real life experiences. My life does certainly not revolve around mobiles. Well sorry my social life does. Anyway yes Rookwise thanks for that. Guess its common sense really. If your mature enough and do go into a relationship with your head screwed on it can work with someone else's kid. I do not have any of my own and not really have planned to but if you love someone and wanna be with them ya gotta take all the baggage. |
haynesycop
Joined: Mar 10, 2004
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Well i'll add my two cents and just say that a child isn't exactly baggage now is it. Anyway good luck whatever happens i hope it works out for you.
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Bonovox
Joined: Apr 13, 2008
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Cheers. I never meant it to sound bad saying baggage. I meant whoever your with you take whatever comes with them.
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Posted: 2009-01-03 18:45
Fantasy Worlds and Disney Girls.
