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*Jojo*
Joined: Oct 15, 2003
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On 2004-10-25 15:51:36, JohnN4 wrote:
Jojo, don't!! I save you man! Life goes on, the chick just played you, no biggy.
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@Johnn4 - Yeah . . . thanks too! So with @meth's . . . there are just things that money can't buy, for everything else, there's this life-size mannequin doll  ! |
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bluechips
Joined: Oct 25, 2004
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From: Weymouth, MA
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@ Ayush, I think if you need to generate an emotional field and make another care for you that will work 90% of the time. It so simple, if you wish to be loved, love. Be yourself and show your affection and passion.. Then follow the one-two-three rule. First, reach out; second, notice the reaction; third, move forward, stop, or back up depending on the signals you receive!
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*Jojo*
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On 2004-10-25 16:24:04, bluechips wrote:
@ Ayush, I think if you need to generate an emotional field and make another care for you that will work 90% of the time. It so simple, if you wish to be loved, love. Be yourself and show your affection and passion.. Then follow the one-two-three rule. First, reach out; second, notice the reaction; third, move forward, stop, or back up depending on the signals you receive!
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@bluechips - Glad to have you here at Esato dude! Nice username mate, 'gamble' is the name of the game in - 'LOVE' ! Though I have some mixed reactions/feelings with your '1-2-3' rule pal, what if the girl is 'deceiving' you, just like what happened to me here, or worst if you are dealing with professional sluts? That knows the ins-and outs of playing with the hearts and ripping off your wallet? Kinda difficult to decipher at times as well I guess . . . |
bluechips
Joined: Oct 25, 2004
Posts: 126
From: Weymouth, MA
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@ JN, its my pleasure to be a part of esato. And you're right sometimes we gamble things around us and I think there are always a sunny side about it. And it's a kind of unremarkable strength and courage to face something we aint certain. Besides love has no rule and can move everything! I'm bluechips, meaning blue; loner and chips; to me sensitive. What a coincidence with the topic, nyway thanks for the compliment! :-)
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methylated_spirit
Joined: Jul 07, 2004
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From: Bonnie Scotland
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Superb piece of advice from bluechips there, welcome aboard!
Hello, Scroto!
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bluechips
Joined: Oct 25, 2004
Posts: 126
From: Weymouth, MA
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Thanks @ methylated_spirit. Me either was never an exception, I got my version of a love trap. Sometimes its better not to say hello to avoid the pain of goodbye. But who we are to control our emotions and feelings. I was ruined by jealousy, my partner grabbed the oppurtunity to dumped me.. Yes it hurts, and it's a one of a kind encounters and with much regrets... I've moved on.
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methylated_spirit
Joined: Jul 07, 2004
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From: Bonnie Scotland
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@ayush
@jojo:
Hear that fellas? He's moved on
Hello, Scroto!
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blackspot
Joined: Sep 06, 2004
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From: Philippines
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... from the words of a well-known Esato philospher/psycho-analyst and part-time comedian "Spread your wings!".
If you ask me, it's actually a very realistic advise. Get to know more people, join sports, associations, civic/religious groups anything that can expose you to as many acquaintances as possible. Sincerely listen to people, learn to have spontaneous, casual relationships with as many of the opposite sex as possible (without thinking about marriage right away) and don't be choosy as to physical attributes. Be honest but tactful. Hug your 55-year-old cook if she makes your favorite dish!
IMO, once you have established yourself as a person whom anybody can be comfortable with, I guarantee, once you find the right person, getting to the next level is like a walk in the park.
Don't try too hard, be natural, and most important - Respect women.
That's just my opinion.
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kimcheeboi
Joined: Dec 19, 2003
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From: Abducted by hot blondes to Les
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 come on, people! its not that hard!
ya know, most people dont have THAT hard of a time finding girls! 
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plasmadog
Joined: May 06, 2004
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From: Beantown, India
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Blackspot... Well said. I think this love at first sight theory is a myth propogated by the movies. True, some of us find it harder to get girls. But that shouldn't stop us from trying! Just that the best of relationships are built over time, lots of time!
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blackspot
Joined: Sep 06, 2004
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exactly, and if you fail, try again, there's no rule as to how many times you are allowed to try. Feeling sorry for yourself will only bring wrinkles, white hair and frustration - no positive outcome. Know that there are approximately 2x more women than men in the world and some of the men decide to join the majority  so more for us! Don't rush things - haste definitely makes waste!
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kimcheeboi
Joined: Dec 19, 2003
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From: Abducted by hot blondes to Les
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@plasmadog- that myth was started by the greek comedian Aristophanes (also quoted in The Symposium by Plato)
I know too much crap 
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*Jojo*
Joined: Oct 15, 2003
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On 2004-10-26 01:43:17, methylated_spirit wrote:
@ayush
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Hear that fellas? He's moved on
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@math's - I'm sorry here mate . . . but my car is still in 'reverse' gear, and it can't even go 1st  . . .
@blackspot - I guess the present ratio is - 8:1 . . . 8 girls for every guy out there! 'Gays' are included in those 8 for your info here  ! |
Demmy
Joined: Oct 02, 2004
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From: Lagos, Nigeria
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Welcome on board Dr. Bluechips.@guys there's this chick i met sumx last month,following week we started dating.Everything has been alright till few days ago when she had a prob with her girl friend.She reported 2 me & i told her,she's @ fault.She flaired up & accused me of not always taking sides with her.
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Demmy
Joined: Oct 02, 2004
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From: Lagos, Nigeria
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...She dvlpd a tantrum & acused me of not alwas takin sides with her & said she dsnt giv a dam abt me.Whn i complaned abt her,she said i dint stud her well enuf b4 askin her out.I decided not 2 call her 'cos i want 2 no if she cares.It's bn 4daz runin wtout she calin me .Wat do u guyz think i shld do?
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