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migawiga
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i AM a good husband 
and hey, i dont think i become 'poor' migi if i do my housework. i take pride in this fact.
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Chartreuse Eyes
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On 2010-06-27 15:01:42, migawiga wrote:
i AM a good husband
and hey, i dont think i become 'poor' migi if i do my housework. i take pride in this fact.
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gotten married?  sachi? you were to getting engaged na?  and pride hoonh! you don't have kaamwali thats why saying... |
Chartreuse Eyes
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it rained here  yepieee 
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Chartreuse Eyes
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okie...mein chali sonay...Gud nite facebook k vampireooo tum loggon k nikalney ka time hogia  ... guess wat? that site asked y you leaving and clicked to "i didn't feel safe here" acha tata... |
buntoo
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On 2010-06-26 12:31:00, Harry Potter wrote:
can any one help me to sort out this?
back biting is equal to eat the meat of your true brother but on the other hand many women do this & say its not a evil deed we are just passing the time. now tell me that just for the sake of time pass can some 1 do this?
For each & every aspect of life, we've Quran,Hadith & Sunnah for guidance. Nabi Pak (S.A.W.W) is our Role Model and HE (S.A.W.W.) is the living pratical Example of Quran.
So Don't listen & bother what a woman says; its of no importance unless according to Quran & Hadith.
Now back to topic:
Backbiting (yani geebat) is one of the Worst sin (Gunah-e-kabira). And this sin is even greater than the adultery & fornication(Zina).
I'll give detailed reference from Quran & Hadith in the end.
Its simple definition is to say something bad about your muslim fellow (bro/sis) in his/her absence which is present in him. And if it is false imputatioin (say something abt someone which is not present in him), then it is called Calumniation or Bohtaan. (Which is greater sin than backbiting).
So never even think of committing it. And also avoid gatherings where people are indulged in such activities.
For timepass? You knw the answer now: Not at all.
And for a Momin (True Muslim) time is not a time-pass thing. Instead he uses/utilizes it.
(Momin k lye waqt guzarney ki nai blkay istimal kernay ki cheez ha.)
and gossips and back biting is same thing?
Nope, its not always the case. Depends on you.
wat exactly is "back biting?" like if you share some of your sorrows with your friend or mentor and it about for example your father or hubby or brother...still its back biting becasue it still about a person?
Yes you can share your problems with a mentor etc. but in Islamic limits.For detailed info read the pages-snaps i've attached at the end.
Geebat is allowed in some situations and in those conditions, its not a geebat. e.g. Backbiting Against an Adulterer(Fornicator), tyrant (cruel ruler) is allowed.
Now for detailed reference, i've taken snaps from selected books including Quran-e-Pak (Kinz-ul-Emaan), Tafseer-e-Mazhari Volume-11, Tafseer Zia-ul-Quran Volume-4, and Ahyaa-ul-Ullooom Volume-3.
Click on the photo for full size Kinz-ul-Emaan:
Para:26; Surah:49; Ayath:12
Concise Tafseer
Continued
Zia-ul-Quran:
Book(Vol)-4, Page: 596 (2678)
Page: 597 (2679)
Page: 598 (2680)
Tafseer Mazhari:
Book(Vol)-11, page:44
Page: 45
Page: 46 Geebat is greater sin than Zina
EDIT: I'm not attaching the further twenty two (22) pages taken from Ahya-ul-Ulooom. I hope, the info i've provided is enough for understanding what is Backbiting and refraining from it in the future.
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migawiga
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^^^
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Chartreuse Eyes
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@Buntoo, Thanks .... btw... now if i define the Backbiting ""the act of parising a person in his/her presences and make spiteful remarks in his/her absence is called Back Biting" kind of a hypocrite. am i right?
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Chartreuse Eyes
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On 2010-06-27 22:34:51, migawiga wrote:
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Guess what migi, i am kind of tired of this esato since yesterday..when someone in MOD moved my thread somewhere without giving a warring even without informing me...plus when i asked Masseur he didn't even care to reply...its pretty unfair... now i know why lots of ppl left... but i would make them to explain their action...why they did what the did...
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solja786
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wat is goin on here loll
how are u ppl
good job Buntoo (Y)
 k750>k790>w850>p990>k800(again) |
buntoo
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now if i define the Backbiting ""the act of parising a person in his/her presences and make spiteful remarks in his/her absence is called Back Biting" kind of a hypocrite. am i right? Yh, that is hypocrisy. Lekin munafqat ki or b kafi types han... anywayz...
If a new article isn't under appropriate thread, then they have the right to move it even without warning.
I am a "Global Moderator" at H2K Forums and i do move/delete wrong posts/threads. So i know the rules.  |
buntoo
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On 2010-06-28 19:17:05, solja786 wrote:
wat is goin on here loll
how are u ppl
good job Buntoo (Y)
Thnx!
p.s. Where have u been? What's up??
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buntoo
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On 2010-06-26 16:29:00, Chartreuse Eyes wrote:
buntoo bahi bola per chota bahi bola  aur baji se tameez se baat kertay hein aap boltay hein samjay? and Gujranwala? neighbour hovay pher tou  I am from Lahore...
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Chota bahi   How do u knw that i'm younger than you are? 
p.s. My eldest (real) sister is 4.5 years older but i never say her aapi/baji etc.  We rather use the nicks 
Are you 30 years old?  If yes, then i'll say you baji. 
And Lahore... My fvr City of Pak
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Chartreuse Eyes
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how old are you? p.s. yup Lahore ki baat hi aur hai |
buntoo
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On 2010-06-29 06:37:00, Chartreuse Eyes wrote:
how old are you? p.s. yup Lahore ki baat hi aur hai
First i asked?? 
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migawiga
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@buntoo: biologically i dunno, but mentally she's 13.
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Posted: 2010-06-27 15:01
k750>k790>w850>p990>k800(again)
