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I Hate my life |
Luke-the-magic-man
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sometimes I hate my life too. Only recently I was looking at it and thinking f**k...
but that does not help nor does it achieve anything. I listed all my obvious problems, ya know like the big ones. Then I analyzed them then thought of solutions.
That way even if you life is shit you can see how you can make it better.
Though you need to look at your problems from a detached pov
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*Jojo*
Joined: Oct 15, 2003
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LIFE is what we MAKE it . . .
there's a SAYING that . . . a USELESS life is a SIGN of an EARLY death  so, if you FEEL that your life is useless . . . then try to canvass for a CHEAP coffin - asap !
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admad
Joined: May 26, 2005
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From: Poland
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Well we all have f**ked up lifes  That's why i'm gonna drink much for the new year, Happy New Year guys! Let's hope it will be better than this one. |
SE4NICK
Joined: Dec 27, 2006
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From: Australia
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Hmmmm after reading all this i suppose ive got to start small and work my way back up.............i think ill take a short vacation (camping at the beach lol) then ill really try to make things work.......
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Topscooby
Joined: Dec 11, 2004
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From: The 'Sunny' South Coast, UK
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@ kryptik..... a few years ago, whilst helping out a mate who was working the nightshift at a all night cafe, a homeless dude asked me if i could spare a cup of tea as he was pennyless. I gave him a cup as there was no way i could refuse because i thought ' there but for the grace of God goes I'. He was so surprised that i did'nt argue with him about it, and that i simply poured him out the drink he requested and handed it over that his response was " God bless you son". I can honestly say that i really did feel blessed and i felt so good within myself that i could help another human being with such a small gesture. I've never forgotten it...and i can recommend helping out another person by any means possible, large or small, if you ever find yourself needing a little 'lift' of your own. There are many things that trouble me about my own life... mostly material things i have to admit. However, i have a beautiful loving and caring wife, a nice big warm house, food in both the fridge/freezer and larder and a job that pays well enough to let me take holidays in the sun every year. It is these things that remind me just how lucky i really am and that i should never, ever complain about my life. So as far as your advice about giving to the homeless is concerned...i am 100% behind you my friend
Just thought i'd share that with you all on the off chance it may help any of you!
Happy New Year Everyone
Don't get me wrong though... a new Mercedes Benz would still be nice 
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CookiCrumble
Joined: Dec 18, 2007
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On 2007-12-31 15:22:03, *Jojo* wrote:
there's a SAYING that . . . a USELESS life is a SIGN of an EARLY death so, if you FEEL that your life is useless . . . then try to canvass for a CHEAP coffin - asap !
i'm not quite sure what you meant by that? |
Danny_BFC
Joined: Jun 18, 2006
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On 2008-01-01 02:05:30, CookiCrumble wrote:
On 2007-12-31 15:22:03, *Jojo* wrote:
there's a SAYING that . . . a USELESS life is a SIGN of an EARLY death so, if you FEEL that your life is useless . . . then try to canvass for a CHEAP coffin - asap !
i'm not quite sure what you meant by that?
Dont worry he always talks sh*t
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CookiCrumble
Joined: Dec 18, 2007
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From: Oriental City
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oh right in that case i'll let it be then.  |
Miss UK
Joined: Jan 11, 2003
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JoJo, I don't think you have many probs you still live with your Mum aye !
Even though I hate my mother inside I saw her yesterday and I asked if I could move back in with her for a while till I got some cash,
she was quite angry and said give me a good answer why I should let you comeback, I couldn't answer that..
but it looks like she may or may not let me comeback till ive got myself sorted, all of this has woken me bigtime 
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SsTiTcH
Joined: Nov 08, 2004
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From: Kyoto.Singapore,Malaysia
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Youve got it good. I lost everything in hurricane katrina got NO HELP yet, lost my family. just have the clothes on my back, my mobile (on its last legs after katrina) and my passport. and thats it. so dont complain any day your above ground is a good day. as to everything else.. well it just doesnt nice matter.
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Miss UK
Joined: Jan 11, 2003
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I haven't got it good,
im living in chronic hell atm..
btw im sorry to hear that you are worse off I hope you get sorted !
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strizlow800
Joined: Aug 23, 2006
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From: Macedonia, Skopje
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@admad - "Well we all have f**ked up lifes That's why i'm gonna drink much for the new year" - I agree with this.... That's the same I'm gonna do...
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smilerthe cheshirecat
Joined: Oct 22, 2003
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From: Cheshire, UK
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I had a career change a few years ago... completely different...
I now work with people "with learning difficulties".... and some have terrible health problems... but... the smile on their faces that they greet me with every single visit... makes me incredibly humble.... and I agree with the sentiment that if you help someone.... and have someone say thanks.... makes all the difference... it did for me... and now I really find the work I do rewarding.... despite going grey and having my hair thin whilst I look in the mirror....
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Kryptik
Joined: Jun 24, 2005
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From: Port Elizabeth, S.Africa
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Well said, Smiler  i teach at a school where the kids come from a background where violence is an everyday phenomenon, and the unemployment rate over 80%. If not for the fact that a local church runs a soup kitchen for them thrice a week, most wouldn't know what a hot meal is. Yet to see those faces light up when they grasp a new concept, or succeed at a difficult task... it's the highlight of my working day!
SsTiTcH, my heart goes out to you mate. Hang in there and keep the faith.
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max_wedge
Joined: Aug 29, 2004
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life sucks and life is grand in equal measure. Often at the same time.
Lately I have had some major financial issues. I don't yet know if there are any solutions. I have debts I can't even begin to describe. My business is going well, but the debt situation threatens to prevent my ability to continue making money. It could all come crashing down like a house of cards. I have worried about this consistantly for the last 6 months to the point where it has affected my physical health (I'm too controlled emotionally to have a nervous breakdown, so it has hit my body instead)
This christmas and new year I had major problems with my neck (locked up - couldn't turn my head left or right), and infected root canal, unable to sleep for more than an hour per night for a couple of weeks (due to pain and no sleep position that would let me sleep).
The week before christmas I had to work despite no sleep and the neck problems. Was the shittest week I'd had in years, yet somehow it didn't get me down. I just soldiered on and focussed on the light at the end of the tunnel, even though I had no idea if there was any, if my neck problems were fixable, or the fact the infection wouldn't clear up despite taking anti-biotics.
Still having neck problems though it's much improved and the chiro says they can fix it. Had the tooth pulled, hopefully now the infection will clear up. Atleast I can sleep now and the pain is more or less gone.
But in all that, Christmas and New Year days were great family days and I had lot's of great company. Probably the best family moments I've had in ages. I even got to see the fireworks for the first time in years! Painkillers gave me enough relief to enjoy the holiday season (gotta love the chemists who design that shit - iboprufen rocks  )
Also, as a result of going to the xray centre for the chiro (for my neck), I met a close friend of mine from High School who I haven't seen in 19 years and whom I thought I may not be able to find again (we lost contact when I was 21). So God moves in mysterious ways my friends! If not for the neck problems I may never have seen her again.
So in the pain and fatigue things can seem hopeless and it can feel like nothing makes sense, or that there is no possible way out, but then inevitably, if you hang in there things work themselves out and it starts to become obvious that there is a purpose in things. Sometimes we will never really understand the purpose until we pass on from this world. But does it matter? Live day to day, don't live for the future. Take what joy you can from each day and feel no guilt over this. Follow your heart.
Continue laughing. Look for the beauty in life were ever you may find it. Smell the flowers. Feed the pigeons. The sun welcomes you every morning. The night embraces you at the end of every day.
Love as much as you can, let go of fear, and be true to yourself. This may not help your circumstance, but you will FEEL better all the same. If you want help with your problems see a professional. However if you want peace, you will find it in your heart and not in any outside thing, place or person.
Also remember, our esato brothers and sisters are here to help us when we are down, bless you all!
btw, I love life, and always have!
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