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shelly58
Joined: Jun 19, 2004
Posts: 373
From: Nottingham UK
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hey who changed the title? 
always look on the bright side of life...de dum..de dum..de dum..
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volvoman
Joined: Dec 15, 2002
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From: Cumbria, England
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On 2009-03-22 08:17:37, QVGA wrote:
so volvoman doesnt want you here and you're leaving? he must hold immense importance in your heart
And when was it decided that I did not want her here, never said that at all in any of the posts on here or in private, maybe a few people on here should get facts correct before taking one side or another. I never once said anything about her leaving or not wanted on here, it was initially a disagreement between us which due to her blocking my PM's before I could send her a reply, which to me was a little childish. This all started as a simple misunderstanding, and has led to me be made out to be some kind of bad guy, when no one has even been given the full reason for the disagreement. So it seems on here that if you are well known and fall out with a lesser known member, who happens to of been here a long time but maybe not as active as others, then the lesser known member is all of a sudden the one in the wrong no matter what. So after her comment of me being the bullyboy, she gets her mates together on here and bully's off the one who did not cause this in the first place, well done everyone, seems a bit unfair but at least I know where I stand now. This could have been sorted out so much more easily and as I publicly apologized to her, yet not even a hint of apology from her this seems very unfair behavour on behalf of the members who continue to make out I am at fault.
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shelly58
Joined: Jun 19, 2004
Posts: 373
From: Nottingham UK
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I have'nt got any of my mates on here to say anything at all thankyou, i just want to forget and carry on but seems you wont let me!
Ok can one of the mods please remove my membership so i dont or cant come back on here!!
And volvoman I was actually composing a pm (which are'nt blocked) to say lets start again
Ive truely had enough this is the first time ive ever had a problem on here, but its not worth the hassle staying
always look on the bright side of life...de dum..de dum..de dum..
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volvoman
Joined: Dec 15, 2002
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From: Cumbria, England
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Whats this for now, I am the one getting nasty PM's not you, I am the one getting made out to be the bad one, I am off now, all of you can continue with this childish I am more badly done to than you routine, it's pathetic, you blocked me from sending you PM's deny it all you want but you did, now you say you haven't so what I am telling lies again, like I am meant to have told you to leave, well I did not never have and this is all over something sooo trivial it's childish. Enjoy the rest of your time on this forum, this a pathetic, all I come on here for is a little info, and see whats new, saw your thread about the P910i, and then all this.
GOODBYE
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goldenface
Joined: Dec 17, 2003
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From: Liverpool City Centre
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C'mon you guys, you know you can sort this out once and for all. Is it really worth falling out and leaving for?
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volvoman
Joined: Dec 15, 2002
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From: Cumbria, England
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YES
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Sammy_boy
Joined: Mar 31, 2004
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From: Staffordshire, United Kingdom
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Just to clear it up I'm not taking any sides and haven't done, just wanted to say that I've had the odd disagreement on here (as I'm sure many of us have) and it hasn't lead to any bad blood or serious splits. In fact I often end up getting on with that person just fine shortly afterwards.
It sounds like this is a small disagreement that has gotten blown out of proportion, you two need to have a chat (via PM) and straighten it all out. I don't want to see anyone leaving over what sounds like a relatively minor disagreement (Apologies if I'm wrong on this, I'm just going on what's in this thread).
"All it takes for evil to flourish is for good men to do nothing" - Edmund Burke
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MWEB
Joined: Feb 13, 2005
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From: somewhere nicer than you
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Will she, wont she
Very sensible Sam 
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Krubach
Joined: Dec 05, 2002
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From: Sunny Portugal! :)
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This kind of threads are a bit childish if you ask me...
If you're not happy with esato as a community just leave silently.
Do you want our pity? Do you want that we go "Please please don't go!"
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MWEB
Joined: Feb 13, 2005
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From: somewhere nicer than you
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No, we dont want her to go!, people such as Shelly make Esato a lot more bearable than it might otherwise be.
Positive assets are worth fighting to retain IMO!!
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shelly58
Joined: Jun 19, 2004
Posts: 373
From: Nottingham UK
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I dont want you to leave Volvoman and to be honest i thought it was all over with...but your comment about getting mates to support me is totally out of line, if you read what they say they are'nt taking sides in fact they've told me not to be so silly!
I am quite prepared to quit Esato because i myself would rather leave than have someone who's been a member longer than me go
And if you really must know something i actually cried on saturday because of this upset...yeah some of you may think im soft but ive got enough going on in my life as it is, and even small things upset me
so ok i might be pathetic in your eyes volvoman but i never would have dreamt this would get to the stage it has
Please dont leave volvoman i would rather go
always look on the bright side of life...de dum..de dum..de dum..
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shelly58
Joined: Jun 19, 2004
Posts: 373
From: Nottingham UK
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On 2009-03-24 13:07:40, Krubach wrote:
This kind of threads are a bit childish if you ask me...
If you're not happy with esato as a community just leave silently.
Do you want our pity? Do you want that we go "Please please don't go!"
if you think its childish they dont read it!
oh and i dont ask that anyone say's anything to ask me to stay
always look on the bright side of life...de dum..de dum..de dum..
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RyaN
Joined: Jun 24, 2002
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From: By the hill, Sussex
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On 2009-03-24 13:47:12, shelly58 wrote:
... but ive got enough going on in my life as it is, and even small things upset me
You've hit the nail on the head there. There are much more important things for you to be concerned about, perhaps, as you say, this is why this thing just kind of 'pushed you over the edge' so to speak. Why not just take a couple more days just to chill out and reflect and then come back wiser and better? To me it seems a bit of a rash judgement for something to happen and then immediately react and then say 'thats it'. It's clear that after you had a couple of days to reflect you came back here and said that you were happy to stay, regardless of what the particular member said to you. So just carry on in the same vain - as once you have gotten over it, you've gotten over it!
@volvoman, over 8 years and 1 incident also makes you want to leave Esato. wtf?
You're both trusted traders and shouldnt be fighting like cats!!
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Marly
Joined: Jun 04, 2006
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From: Netherlands
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On 2009-03-24 02:25:15, Marly wrote:
When you like a place and most people there, it would be a shame to leave this place, just for a disagreement with only one person.
I'll simply quote myself .
And this is for BOTH shelly58 AND volvoman.
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goldenface
Joined: Dec 17, 2003
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From: Liverpool City Centre
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Marly has spoken. Well said Marly!
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