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I really need advice on approaching a girl i fancy |
brownie1989
Joined: Feb 23, 2005
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From: Near Stoke City FC!!!! WOOOOOO
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Ok, here goes! I have been at uni for 10 weeks and hardly know this girl in my class. Today i added her on facebook and started iming her to help her with her work and ask her what she was doing friday because i thought she was nice. In the lecture after the facebook chat we got talking amoungst friends and i think i like her. Only problem is im shy and get nervous and dont really know the girl that well. I dont know what to do. I have a lecture with her at 9 2moz and my mates in that class know i fancy her. Any help will do!
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totalgsm
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Do you speak to her in the class or is it just online?
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Bonovox
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Watch her body language that will tell you if she fancies you or not. Read up on Female Body Language on google it helps. But as well as that just make conversation about anything with her and ask her what she likes to do in her spare time and then ask her out. Be yourself be honest and just go for it you have nothing to lose. Whats the worst that can happen. |
themarques
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My advise go slow, cause if things dont go your way well it could be a very cold winter.
Gain her friendship as you have done so far, iming, then after maybe a week or two just in passing say if you free for a drink at the weekend join US (use the word us and get a few friends to help break the ice including girls) then it will help you out with confidence for the next date, which will just hopefully be the two of you.
But take my advise on go slow and always make it with a group of friends on first date, trust me it will help alot.
Keep us posted, and good luck.
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procterdc
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My advice would be to take it slow. After being with someone for 4 years and then splitting up, I was sort of new to it all again. 2months ago I met a girl (she's best friends with my best friends sister) We all went out one night and I just started talking to her, and things progressed from there really. Low and behold 2months later, she's round mine every night and I can't get rid of her lol.
Just be yourself, don't bullshit her and hopefully all will go well. Good luck mate.
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voda_jon
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mate just be yourself and see how things go... see if she fancies goin out for drink one night/day.... i did the above and now nearly 3yrs later am gettin married nxt august and we just bought a house so all is good 
oh an if yeh mates start actin up jus be the good one and sit back an ignore them, she'll think ur a better person rather than joining in with them.
And i always find if u have a nice hobby that u can both enjoy thats always a good starting point... me and the fiance both went to the same church and were both in the choir and both like other boring things like museums and walks lol... but see what she likes and if there is somethin u like as well get chattin bout it....
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yeah as a couple others have said. BE YOUR SELF! most important thing to remember.
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QVGA
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Approach her, tell her you like her but cant see her because studies are more important. Then study and become something. 10 years later she's all yours and that time you wont even have to approach her, she'll come to you. Quick and snappy 
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gforce23
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Don't listen to these blokes bro. Use any pickup line from here and she'll get horny like a ***** in heat.
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brownie1989
Joined: Feb 23, 2005
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thank you everyone here apart from gforce:P!! only kidding
I talked to her only abit today, but i have added her msn so may try to chat to her tonight and find common ground. thanks for your help. |
rule_breaker
Joined: Jul 25, 2005
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As most have said, take it slow and do show that you love your life and have a lot of good interesting things in your life and her being part of it will benefit her too... Even if you have nothing to do and life is boring as hell.. just don't show it, it doesn't help..
I'm at university myself, Girls do get impressed with your academic achievements but whats more important is your humor! so read up on a lot of sensible jokes that you can share with her.. Good luck mate..
I broke up with my gf after 6 years and I'm gonna need alot of tips from this thread myself, so I'm gonna keep an eye on it:P
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paul101
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take her for a tea/coffee (something simple)
if she likes you, even slightly. she'll jump at it 
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brownie1989
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I added her on msn earlier and she has accepted me so probs 2moz i will sit down and try get to know her. Thanks man may use the coffee tip next week.
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paul101
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you can msn her along the lines of:
hey, not seen you in a while
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fancy going for a tea/coffee at
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ok then, you can text me on < insert number here > when you get there
< reply>
bingo! you get her number aswell!  
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brownie1989
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From: Near Stoke City FC!!!! WOOOOOO
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spoke on msn this morning for abit. started talking about the course then the convo died pritty much so i mensioned how did she like stoke and she said she wasn't sure about it so i started speaking to her about it. it went ok in the end. |
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Posted: 2008-12-09 01:16
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