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I really need advice on approaching a girl i fancy |
brownie1989 Joined: Feb 23, 2005 Posts: 204 From: Near Stoke City FC!!!! WOOOOOO PM |
Online we seem close but it doesnt translate in2 real life. Im 2 nervous
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gtr83 Joined: Sep 27, 2008 Posts: > 500 From: Indonesia PM |
The best advice that I can give you is summed up in two words: stay calm. Trust me, it covers everything. Polite jokes would also come in handy!
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bavlondon2 Joined: Jan 28, 2006 Posts: > 500 PM |
Just tell her exactly how you feel. Waste of time beating around the bush.
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gforce23 Joined: Aug 25, 2003 Posts: > 500 From: Atlanta, London, Dubai PM |
On 2008-12-15 10:23:47, bavlondon2 wrote:
Just tell her exactly how you feel. Waste of time beating around the bush.
Exactly. You aren't marrying her for Christ's sake!
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brownie1989 Joined: Feb 23, 2005 Posts: 204 From: Near Stoke City FC!!!! WOOOOOO PM |
On 2008-12-15 10:25:51, gforce23 wrote:
On 2008-12-15 10:23:47, bavlondon2 wrote:
Just tell her exactly how you feel. Waste of time beating around the bush.
Exactly. You aren't marrying her for Christ's sake!
that was the long term plan lol
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gtr83 Joined: Sep 27, 2008 Posts: > 500 From: Indonesia PM |
From my experience, the more you root for a girl the less chance you have of winning her over.
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bavlondon2 Joined: Jan 28, 2006 Posts: > 500 PM |
So you should play it cool and hard to get? Meh
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badassmam Joined: Nov 07, 2007 Posts: > 500 PM |
Shower her with complements in a way that she likes you but it seems like you don't want her. One day when she is sad, she will speak to you in confidence and take it from there. Pretend you're listening, use some buzz words like 'friendship' and 'respect' etc. next thing you know, you the daddy and she yo' bi'ach.
I do the same with the ladies at work, they know I don't want them but since I'm so nice I get lots of attention. I don't mess the ladies about and never lead them on, they just feed my ego and I love it. Learn from the bad ass. |
paul101 Joined: Mar 26, 2007 Posts: > 500 From: first to last PM, WWW
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On 2008-12-17 00:32:40, badassmam wrote:
Pretend you're listening
NEVER pretend to listen, that is the WORST thing you can do
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gtr83 Joined: Sep 27, 2008 Posts: > 500 From: Indonesia PM |
@bav
No, what I meant was to keep your emotional distance. Be a friend and a stranger at the same time. Can't really explain it, you'll have to experience it yourself to get the feeling of this 'right distance'.
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hutchygers Joined: Nov 16, 2006 Posts: 196 From: New York City PM |
you could use my tactics and go up to her and say 'my name is ronald mcdonald and i am here to deliver your big mac'. ::at this point grab your crotch:: then say 'im sure you will have a happy meal'
probably best to avoid this sort of thing though if she is the serious type. i can get away with it because im a clown
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yea g Joined: Jul 02, 2008 Posts: > 500 From: New Zealand PM, WWW
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^^ hahahaha thats soo funny
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KingBooker5 Joined: May 12, 2007 Posts: > 500 From: London, England PM |
On 2008-12-19 17:06:43, hutchygers wrote:
you could use my tactics and go up to her and say 'my name is ronald mcdonald and i am here to deliver your big mac'. ::at this point grab your crotch:: then say 'im sure you will have a happy meal'
probably best to avoid this sort of thing though if she is the serious type. i can get away with it because im a clown
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dastata Joined: Dec 21, 2008 Posts: 16 PM, WWW
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Thats sweet. wish you good luck with her, but do not be too nervous. And remember, whatever happen do not get henpecked. Just don't!
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Akabd12 Joined: Nov 18, 2008 Posts: 10 From: Naija PM |
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On 2008-12-15 10:12:25, gtr83 wrote:
The best advice that I can give you is summed up in two words: stay calm. Trust me, it covers everything. Polite jokes would also come in handy!
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