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brownie1989
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Posted: 2008-12-15 09:35
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Online we seem close but it doesnt translate in2 real life. Im 2 nervous
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gtr83
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Posted: 2008-12-15 10:12
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The best advice that I can give you is summed up in two words: stay calm. Trust me, it covers everything. Polite jokes would also come in handy!
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bavlondon2
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Posted: 2008-12-15 10:23
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Just tell her exactly how you feel. Waste of time beating around the bush.
gforce23
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Posted: 2008-12-15 10:25
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On 2008-12-15 10:23:47, bavlondon2 wrote:
Just tell her exactly how you feel. Waste of time beating around the bush.


Exactly. You aren't marrying her for Christ's sake!
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brownie1989
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Posted: 2008-12-15 11:23
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On 2008-12-15 10:25:51, gforce23 wrote:

On 2008-12-15 10:23:47, bavlondon2 wrote:
Just tell her exactly how you feel. Waste of time beating around the bush.


Exactly. You aren't marrying her for Christ's sake!

that was the long term plan lol
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gtr83
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Posted: 2008-12-15 12:31
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From my experience, the more you root for a girl the less chance you have of winning her over.
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bavlondon2
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Posted: 2008-12-15 21:12
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So you should play it cool and hard to get? Meh
badassmam
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Posted: 2008-12-17 00:32
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Shower her with complements in a way that she likes you but it seems like you don't want her. One day when she is sad, she will speak to you in confidence and take it from there. Pretend you're listening, use some buzz words like 'friendship' and 'respect' etc. next thing you know, you the daddy and she yo' bi'ach.

I do the same with the ladies at work, they know I don't want them but since I'm so nice I get lots of attention. I don't mess the ladies about and never lead them on, they just feed my ego and I love it. Learn from the bad ass.
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Posted: 2008-12-17 01:26
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On 2008-12-17 00:32:40, badassmam wrote:
Pretend you're listening



NEVER pretend to listen, that is the WORST thing you can do
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gtr83
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Posted: 2008-12-19 14:28
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@bav

No, what I meant was to keep your emotional distance. Be a friend and a stranger at the same time. Can't really explain it, you'll have to experience it yourself to get the feeling of this 'right distance'.
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hutchygers
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Posted: 2008-12-19 17:06
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you could use my tactics and go up to her and say 'my name is ronald mcdonald and i am here to deliver your big mac'. ::at this point grab your crotch:: then say 'im sure you will have a happy meal'

probably best to avoid this sort of thing though if she is the serious type. i can get away with it because im a clown
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Posted: 2008-12-20 10:43
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^^ hahahaha thats soo funny
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Posted: 2008-12-20 11:14
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On 2008-12-19 17:06:43, hutchygers wrote:
you could use my tactics and go up to her and say 'my name is ronald mcdonald and i am here to deliver your big mac'. ::at this point grab your crotch:: then say 'im sure you will have a happy meal'

probably best to avoid this sort of thing though if she is the serious type. i can get away with it because im a clown



ROFL
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Posted: 2008-12-21 22:10
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Thats sweet. wish you good luck with her, but do not be too nervous. And remember, whatever happen do not get henpecked. Just don't!
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Posted: 2008-12-23 09:52
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On 2008-12-15 10:12:25, gtr83 wrote:
The best advice that I can give you is summed up in two words: stay calm. Trust me, it covers everything. Polite jokes would also come in handy!


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