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How to be a polite person? |
ROSAN
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Ppl around me say that I am rude. I agree. I always bring my pvt problems and mess with them and speak rude. I tried but can't control my feelings. I just get aggression when someone is against me. I know its wrong and I should respect everyone's feeling. But . . . .
So cool ppls around here would you Plz say me how to control my Anger. Thanks in advance. |
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se_p800
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why are you angry? What makes you an angry person? Is there something difficult in your life? Or don't you know?
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Cycovision
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When you feel yourself getting angry, imagine that you are the stereotypical English gentleman. You know, the toffee-nosed aristocrat that would never lower himself to partake in violence or lose his cool.
You will instantly calm down and think more clearly. Just don't talk with a funny english accent, that's all!
This works for me 
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ROSAN
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On 2007-09-29 18:40:44, se_p800 wrote:
why are you angry? What makes you an angry person? Is there something difficult in your life? Or don't you know?
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I don't know whats my actual problem. But I get so much hurt when someone breaks my heart. I never wanna talk to him after. Although they are sorry for that I just can't forget the pain they gave me. I am so much hurt that I just can't explain. Any good tips to clear myClear my pain.
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ROSAN
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On 2007-09-29 18:52:55, KingBooker5 wrote:
Maybe you should become a Buddha?
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Plz dont flirt. Am serious and really need your help. |
se_p800
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I don't know whats my actual problem. But I get so much hurt when someone breaks my heart. I never wanna talk to him after. Although they are sorry for that I just can't forget the pain they gave me. I am so much hurt that I just can't explain. Any good tips to clear myClear my pain.
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wow im in the same situation. JIve just been keeping my self occupied so I dont think about it.
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Chartreuse Eyes
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@Rosan, thats very natural thing dear, no person on earth can bear a break heart but because of someone else's mistake u shouldn't punished yourself by turning your personilty into a rude person. Though its easy to say but hard to do still not impossible. Live for your own self quit living for others because when you will start living for your own things gonna be surely different.
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On 2007-09-29 18:22:00, ROSAN wrote:
So cool ppls around here would you Plz say me how to control my Anger.
. . . . EAT a LOT dude ! Don't ever GO on a DIET !
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amnesia
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kindness and patience go hand in hand these days.
I've had the most rudest experiences in England, but I shrug them off.
Sometimes I vent my anger on the wrong people, but I've learned that when I feel a sudden surge of frustration that if I stay quiet for a while I calm down.
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max_wedge
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On 2007-09-29 18:22:00, ROSAN wrote:
Ppl around me say that I am rude. I agree. I always bring my pvt problems and mess with them and speak rude. I tried but can't control my feelings. I just get aggression when someone is against me. I know its wrong and I should respect everyone's feeling. But . . . .
So cool ppls around here would you Plz say me how to control my Anger. Thanks in advance.
Rosan, usually anger comes when we don't feel good about ourselves so we want to be angry at other people (it's better than feeling bad about ourselves).
If you can work on feeling better about yourself, for example, if you know deep inside that no matter what the other person does, you are still a worthwhile person, then you won't feel so angry when people do things that hurt you. You will feel more understanding and tolerant.
Atleast that works for me. I have a big anger problem too  Probably you can see that from some of the dogfight's I get into on esato. 
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ROSAN
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Thanks Guys.
I will strictly try to follow your instructions. You are right guys why should I punish myself being rude in others mistake?
Anyway guys I will try my best.
Guys Am also poor in communicating with new person so would you Plz guide me How To communicate With New ppl And Make Friends. I am very poor In making friends. It takes me a year to make one friend. Plz guide me.
Thanks for your suggestions. I am feeling Good Now. |
Chartreuse Eyes
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I would say that to make someone friend is very easy then keep friendship fresh and outlast is very difficult task. Some people have so many friends but barely having true feeling of love and sincere in those amity. Where as there are some people who prefer quite few but sincere friends. So its not necessary to have a large number of buddies. However you asked How to make friends. You don’t need to do anything for making friends. Just be yourself, and don’t pretend. Its reminds me a song: “You really don’t need to pretend, if you really want to make a friend, who cares if your hair is too long, never mind if your clothes are wrong, everything’s alright we can hang together..we can be best friend for ever!...” lol!
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blackspot
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I believe being polite is already a huge leap towards making new friends. If you can learn to control your anger, think about your words before you say it, and learn to smile sincerely -- you won't need to make an effort to make friends, they will come knocking on your door!
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goldenface
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I don't think you can go far wrong if you just treat people as you would like to be treated yourself.
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