Posted by kdskamal
Hi guys !!
I'm Sunny and I'm in love with a girl who is 2 years younger than me.The problem is that i cant make out if she loves me or not.
So the crux of evrythng is that I want to know that she loves me or not withot directly asking her. Is there a way.
U guys gotta help me out.I cannot concentrate !!
This message was posted from a T610
[ This Message was edited by: kdskamal on 2005-05-04 09:59 ]
Posted by haynesycop
ask?
Posted by batesie
you could just ask.
Posted by nitesh
Thats not too easy. I think he might be afraid to ask her...
Posted by batesie
| Quote: |
|
Lol snap "the batesie and copperfield answers thread"
Posted by haynesycop
tell her you love her and if she says the same back then theres your answer if not?
Posted by fatreg
does she spit or swallow??
thatll answer it for you!
ROFL
fatreg
Posted by haynesycop
how rude
batesie - great minds think alike
Posted by fatreg
how rude?
well itll answer it for him!
fatreg
Posted by batesie
| Quote: |
|
my advice is dont look for love, as love will find you...
Posted by nitesh
@bat how cum?.. Indian girls are shy so they dont ask guys out.
Posted by masseur
another one of these "love" threads...
I disagree with asking because you should just know
Its only our insecurities that make us doubt and if you are a little insecure and you do ask, you cannot be sure you'll be happy with the answer even if she says yes
Posted by Vlammetje
If you say you love her and you don;t even have the courage to ask her person to person, instead you go to an anonymous website to get the stranges sort of advice from anybody willing to post any crap, and you let that rule your life, do you even deserve her love? I think not.
Be a man and ask her.
Posted by nitesh
@massuer gr8 advice. You must be the LOVEGURU!
Posted by kdskamal
Yes she is shy and reluctant to say it
Posted by masseur
| Quote: |
|
well I dunno about that
but I just think that you should know from how things are going in the relationship
one way of testing the water if you love her is to tell her that and you'll get some idea from the response if the feeling is mutual
Posted by DJcreamz
My advice:
Sleep with her best friend, if she cries you know she loves ya.
Posted by PeterKay
| Quote: |
|
There is no need
Posted by batesie
to quote a famous saying...
"What great thing would you attempt, if you knew you could not fail?"
Posted by PeterKay
Best way i think is to ask.
Posted by nitesh
@kds Then take her to a some place and just ask her. Tell her about your feelings for her. And dont worry about the answer. Good luck:-).
Posted by kdskamal
Wat should i ask..this is my 1st time
Posted by fatreg
ask her what size gloves she takes!!
LOL
fatreg
Posted by nitesh
Fatreg you are sick. @kds firstly tell your feelings for her. Ask what she thinks about you. And dont be afraid be MAN.
Posted by fatreg
whats sick about asking her what size gloves she takes??
its common sense what he should ask her! if he wants a reply along the lines of "i live you" he needs to ask Do you love me!?
fatreg
Posted by nitesh
@Fatreg my gf spits, so what do you think ? Does she loves me?;-).lol
Posted by kdskamal
As i've told u tat she is a bit shy so she cant say it directly. HOW CAN I MAKE HER SAY IT INDIRECTLY
Posted by umerhayat
Hi. If you think she is too shy to tell you directly. Then use email , sms ' messenger or make a call. So it will be kind of indirect way
Posted by FutureDesign
Who said he was a man could be a woman for all you know! And using sms or email to ask personal question is rude imo
Posted by Vlammetje
| Quote: |
|
[let's shout mode] WHY DOES SHE NEED TO SAY IT IN THE FIRST PLACE??? [/let's stop shouting mode]
Just out of curiosity: Have you ever told her that you love her?
Posted by JK
Ask her how much she loves something...
like if she likes chocolate...
u can ask what/who do you love more than chocolate...
if she says her dog.... carry on till U come up!!!
Posted by BobaFett
Love is a feeling, so listen to your heart and use your mind. Then u get the answer.
Posted by Ing. FijoK
@Boba: Old school
Love is a feeling... bla bla bla
_________________
We have only one life - SO EVERYDAY MUST BE FUNDAY
[ This Message was edited by: Ing. FijoK on 2005-05-04 15:17 ]
Posted by DJcreamz
All i know is im in love with the woman on the front of this months UK edition of PCFormat magazine
Posted by Ing. FijoK
Posted by DJcreamz
come on shes gorges
Posted by *Jojo*
Eheeeeeeeeem! To start off, We are all very well taught that LOVE moves in mysterious ways, as the song - goes. There can be a million translation to the problem of the author here. In my case, I guess we are just both too reluctant to ASK if the GIRL likes us or what. But let us not just forget that experiences from the PAST help us grow wiser . . . in the future. Have you ever imagined how those ugly-looking guys gets the prettiest babes in town? Because they have money to spend with and not to forget what the girls craze for - flashy cars, and the other way around, ugly-looking girls gets the handsome-looking guys . . . though not in general, at leat you have an idea here. In my experience, modesty aside, I know as a little boy, that I am ahead (in looks) amongst my friends et al, so girls like me more, but to my surprise, I also get turned-down by some
Here's an example, I have a pretty neighbor about 7 years my junior, I always see her since she was a kid. Never did I know that she will eventually grow up having a fashion/ramp model figure and face
. I know I really don't have a chance of getting her as my fiancee, so I just took her pics every morning she passes by in front of our house - for 2 months (straight) a real stalker at that. After taking about 20 shots (20 days) she finally made notice that I am taking her image, but did not confront me - she's a hard-to-get lady I tell you guys! After a month, I finally saw her one night with his boyfriend passing in front of our house, so I told myself that she's a LADY and not a man-hater after all. One morning, she was with her boyfriend again, but when she saw me staring at her from a distance, she let go of her bf's hands and walks as if they are just plain - friends. About more than a year since then had passed, and I don't see her with her hubby anymore - for whatever reason, that I don't know. What I just made notice when she starts noticing me taking her pics, is that everytime she passes in front of our house, she sees to it that she - combs her hair and shrugs it off . . . manner, I am very certain that it is a SIGN, good or bad I don't know.
To the author of this thread, as they say action speaks louder than words, so better make some observation with the girl you like, if she stares at you once in a while etc. etc. you can just FEEL those - BODY MOVEMENTS mate, you are a brilliant guy I suppose.
Up to this day (3 years had passed), I still did not manage to talk to this pretty lady neighbor - crush of mine. But she manages to shrug her hair (I hope not to remove those lice) everytime she passes by our house and FEELS that I am present staring at her - that never FAILS!
So, what are your comments on my 'forlorn' lovelife of 3 years mates
Here are some of her images taken using a low-end type of digicam:
This one I guess she sees me taking her image:
The shrugging of her hair - always, a good sign I guess
:
* I always took 2 shots of her (daily) then - front/back, the shrugging of her hair always happens at the . . . back shots
@author - Good Luck mate!
Posted by Vlammetje
Scary......
Posted by Miss Bunnypenny
Scary indeed... perhaps she doesn't have another route to be able to bypass your place...that 'shrugging' looks like someone trying to hide their face to me!
And to the originator of this thread... perhaps if you make her feel comfortable about the way you feel, she may feel relaxed enough to tell you if she loves you - if she does, then I would think the best way to hear it is if she feels a guarantee that you won't laugh at her!
Posted by DJcreamz
im skaird, quite quite skaird
Posted by *Jojo*
Vlammetje - Watch your EVERY move
I'm enroute to Charles de Gaulle Airport a couple of hours from now I won't miss your place I guess as I have some pics of you too! I'll donning a disguise, that of Mixin, with mustache and beard and all . . . See ya!
Posted by Tha Flipkonijn
@JN
eventhough the story is a bit scary (you're like some kind of psycho dude) keep us informed about your 'relationship' with this woman.
i'm really curiuos
Posted by JK
JN
y dont you just greet her and maybe she will invite u to do some "professional" pics?????
Posted by *Jojo*
@flip & kbr- Nothing will transpire I am telling you folks. I'll wait for her to do the 1st move! It's only my pastime. The digicam I used was a bit outdated-'96 model that's why it resulted to a poor capture. Well anyway that's just my story. I truly believe to one of the replies here: Don't force yourself to FIND love, but let LOVE find you!
Posted by JK
o well then maybe she'll throw flowers on your grave then!!!
if u wanna wait...
[ This Message was edited by: 786KBR on 2005-05-05 15:24 ]
Posted by Oogamous
@kds...Don't get the wrong idea man from JN.. this is India. You'd probably be beaten up by her parents and lynched by a mob if u try the camera thingie..
Yup, buy her flowers, give her sweets, apply deodorant... the usual. Good old Time tested methods work..
If u want her to say it "Indirectly" Just ask her to break this Code Aloud in front of you.
"9 12.15.22.5 25.15.21"
(That's the numerico-alphabetical value of 'I Love You")
So if she's smart enough to break the code but dumb enough to say it aloud.. There Ya go. You got it made.
Posted by Tha Flipkonijn
| Quote: |
|
omg, you defenitly are NOT going to get laid with this shit ...
Posted by haynesycop
Posted by Oogamous
Flip, the idea is not to get laid, but to get the girl whom the author of this thread likes, to say i love you to him in an indirect manner as he desired. It's flawless. :-)
Posted by *Jojo*
| Quote: | |||
| |||
@ooga - I thought it was just the simple - 143 combination pal
Whys sooooo many combination, looks like it's your social security number you've given there mate
@author - Try my suggestion dude, it will work I tell you! Just apply the 'body language' technique mate, don't make the move - test the waters first (go swimming et al
) her body actions will just tell if she likes you too or perhaps . . . LOVE you as well!