Posted by deeone
@tilly ur belief is deep. I couldn't agree more.
Posted by Tilly
@Aya-for one who tinks of startin a blind-date thread &who's crazy abot his wife,i'm suprised ü've not posted ur opinion on love yet.@coolapostle-ü havnt yet given ur defination.@dee one-nice illustration but is dat ur opinion abot love@areafada-wat do ü av to say?
Posted by Demmy
@Tilly "somex it's beta not 2 say HELO cos of d pains of sayin gdbye, but hu r we 2 control our emotions n feelins" - Bluechips...This can only hint @ what i'm tryin 2 say.Those u really love don't love n those hu love u, you don't love.I'vd got quite a story but 2 long 4 my fone.@ever1 also ha ha ha!
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[ This Message was edited by: Demmy on 2004-11-08 23:30 ]
Posted by Tilly
@Dee One-if only more pple see love 4m d pt of view we agree on maybe der wld b less broken hearts.@evry1-SHE-says gud nite
Posted by Demmy
Where's EVERY?
Posted by OluYom
Kai! I can see I have missed.@areafada:a labour party is an xcllent idea @demmy:samson was d strongest man,but not remotely 1 of d smartest. @All: Love is a choice,a decision,we make 2 b unconditionally committed 2 someone. Luv aint blind.It sees but overlooks.
Posted by OluYom
Again,when looking at a marital or pre-marital relationship, love isnt d only factor. I have met ladies dating some1 with a bad attitude. They say 'I luv him'. I say they are being unwise. Luv overlooks minor faults & basks in strengths.Wisdom flees from accidents waitin 2 happen.
Of course, it goes both ways.
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[ This Message was edited by: AYA on 2004-11-09 07:19 ]
Posted by coolapostle
I suggest we continue this LOVE TALK because Madam is really into it. I will even put in a serious post or two. @Aya WAS THAT A 3 AM POST I READ? :-D
Posted by Demmy
@coola, may we know hu madam is?@AYA yes i bliv love sees all those faults n excesses, it merely overlook them - supporting d slogan: BEAUTY IS IN D EYES OF D BEHOLDER!
Posted by coolapostle
I have never been in love b4...
Posted by Demmy
@Coola, Lucky you but ur turn will surely come.I used bliv there was nothing like it untill it happened.Somex i feel love is 'stupid'
Posted by OluYom
Luv grows or decreases with knowledge.Example,when Deeone 1st saw d nokia 7200,it was "luv at 1st sight", but after going thru d specs,his "luv" disappeared. :) Point: Luv at 1st sight is plain infatuation.
Posted by Angelgirl
@Demmy, visited the forum already... i thot, i was writing to the forum earlier..., i guess smeone gat to put me thru...
Posted by Angelgirl
@Demmy Thx, i think i found my way now, so my Introduction again House
Just registered yesterday.... courtesy coolapostle, unfortunately am not a Glo user, i use MTN, and i dont have a camphone like most of u, am writing from my office. Anyway, i enjoy ur discussions, n hope to make my contributions, once in a while, i need more info on the NLC strike........gist! gist!! gist!!!, coolapostle, said i registered late, i could have been the first lady, so who is the first lady here, Angelgirl is making her entrance.
Posted by Demmy
@AYA, all true love are founded on infatuation.PROOF: when u c a gl n fil u genuinly like her.If she acept, tendenc is dt d lov'll wax stronger.If she no jell, u might fil bad initiatialy bul u'll eventualy move on with life.If d 4mer was d case then d conclusion's dt it's 'true love' - QED
Posted by OluYom
@Demmy: I beg 2 disagree on dat.Relationships based on infatuation ultimately hit d rocks. Why? Infatuation is a blind rush based on feelings stimulated by appearances.Love is a decision based on knowledge. @Angelgirl:Welcome! Lets talk :)
Posted by brix25
Hey AYA those were some wise words. I've only recently made the distinction between love and infatuation... Thought I loved this girl until I saw that she was a leech willing to suck me dry for her own advantage.
Posted by coolapostle
I am waiting for the gist to progress to the LOVE OF MONEY so that I can have sometimi to say... :-D
Posted by OluYom
@brix: Good thing u were able 2 make dat distinction.Most ppl dont,& their relationships are one roller coaster ride after another. + broken & bitter hearts.Happy 4 u & all others who wont be fooled again.
Posted by Tilly
@angelgirl-nice to hav another sis in d hse.i happen to 2b tagged 1st lady of dis 4rum.@C.A-u'd b suprised wat some pple wld do 4d luv of money
Posted by Tilly
I once dated a guy wu was so money-conscious.i often joked dat he cld sell me off @ a gud bargain.it wasnt until dis guy left me lyin criticaly ill in a hospital bcos he had one major runs 2do dat i realised d rltnship was doomed.dat marked d end of us
Posted by Demmy
Welcom 1ce again Angel.A friend was discusin her boyfriend with me 2day n it's similar 2 wot we'er discusin 2night.She said dis guy can tolerate any sh*t 4rm her just bcos he's in luv wit her n she's not 2 interested in 1 straight jacket relationship.
Posted by Demmy
@Tilly why don't u change ur forum name 2 1slady?@AYA, i agree with ur final submission absolutely.Where's deeone d progenitor of dis particular topic?
Posted by Demmy
@Angel, bout d strike pls try 2 read monday posts. Twas discussed.
Posted by Demmy
According 2 CNN, a grp of colege students launched a website renderin an appology 2 d whole world on bhalf of dos hu voted Bush in.What's d implication of dis 2 d Bush admin n what does it infer concerning his popularity? What's also d implication of d FALUJA offensive launched in Iraq barely 72hrs after his victory.
Posted by OluYom
@Demmy: Ha! How do you apologise on behalf of an unapologetic? The guys who voted him back in are not apologising. The man himself is happy to still be at the helms of the US of A. Those kids are on their own; no-one sent them; they just went. Simply my view sha o
Posted by Angelgirl
@Demmy, poor guy... anyway, i guess love is really blind. But some guys the extent they go just to proove their love,.. if many were like them, the world would be a better place. Majority are heartless, if i have my way, will chop n run..lol...lol
Posted by Angelgirl
@AYA n Tilly, thx for the welcome, hope to enjoy my stay.
Posted by Angelgirl
@Tilly. dat guy was not worth it, if all he thinks is money, money money..... i bet he could have sold u.
Posted by Angelgirl
@coolapostle, have never been in love???, i find it hard to believe, i thot u r already a grandfada in this issue......, well i guess it all depends on our individual understanding of love.
Posted by OluYom
@Angelgirl: U know ALL guys are not like dat
. Ask my wife.We dated 6 years & have been married 4 yrs & its still heaven 4 her. Me, I'm a practical hands-on person.I blieve in walking d talk.I blieve a lot more men should be a lot more responsible in handling relationships, so I made up my mind 2 b a role model.So far, it looks like I'm putting on a jolly good show 
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Posted by coolapostle
@angel u really are lucky. ESATO has 50000 members and on one had chosen ur name. On love... I am just on my first girl friend! I still dont feel like I am in love. I love her, but I still dont feel like ' OH YEAH I M IN LOVE' Maybe some of u should describe what u felt when u were in love.
Posted by Angelgirl
@ coolapostle, i wonda how u get these database information and records of current happenings in ESATO, u should have been one of the founding fathers.... lol..lol
Posted by OluYom
@coolapostle: contrary to what people say and believe, love is NOT a feeling. Dont fall for it. There I days I get up from bed, look at my wife, and dont feel ANYTHING. But do I love her? Yes. I am 100% committed to her. That's love.
Posted by kimcheeboi
hey peeps, if you need love advice send a PM to methylated_spirit
just poppin' my head in to say hi
Posted by deeone
Hey! you guyz are doing great with this topic, keep it up. Sorry 4 being absent 4 sometime. @angelgirl welcome, @cool weldone, @every1 in the final analysis luv is a choice.
Posted by methylated_spirit
Hi, just thought i'd issue a warm welcome to all the Nigerians here! Its nice to meet you all, i hope you enjoy your stay here at Esato!
Posted by OluYom
@meth & kimchee: Good 2 see ur hands here. @deeone: glo gprs came up just some 30 mins ago. How's ur end? @all: Just curious. Any1 ever attempted 2 WAP esato over MTN/Vmobile CSD? If yes, hope u work with a bank or an oil coy!
Posted by Demmy
Well done guys@prof n kimi thanx 4 making it real.Still on d fallout of d U.S elections n d FALUJA offensive in Iraq.
Posted by coolapostle
No, no, no ... Leave the USA. More love talk please! Dont u guys want to hear my love talk? @Aya It is home to know I am ok for not feeling 'in love'. @dee got my MMS? Where is yours?
Posted by Demmy
Ok i'm in love with ever1 in da house.I think AYA has said d all vital point bout love: 'seeing dos faults n overlookin them.4givin them when they go wrong', 4 love doesn't keep records of wrongs.LOVE'S D BEST GIFT ONE CAN GIVE D OTHER, but care shld b taken so it's not given 2 an undeserving individual.
Posted by OluYom
@Demmy: What say you? Coolapostle seems 2 b enjoying d love jist; shall we pick up USA later? :) @coolapostle: Letz hear ur love thing o :)
Posted by deeone
@cool I didn't get any mms. should send u one this night. Will like to read what u have to say about luv.
Posted by Demmy
@Coola, now it's up 2 u let's roll - "Love gist part 2" ha ha ha!
Posted by deeone
Luv gist pt 2? that sounds like fun. Ok! what do u do wen u catch ur spouse cheating on you?
Posted by Demmy
Pls define degree of catch deeone.You wouldn't call hugging cheating or would u?
Posted by OluYom
Dear me, this sounds most interesting. Think I'm gonna sit back and enjoy this
Posted by Demmy
Where's hit n run deeone?@Coolapostle what have u got 2 say bout love?
Posted by deeone
@Demmy I mean red handed. Really doing d thing. @aya don't just sit back pls participate
Posted by Atlis
Just greeting you guys!