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Posted by SE4NICK
K theres this girl i REALLY like and id like to do something for her on Valentines day, and maybe go out with her sometime. What could i do.

Any ideas

[ This Message was edited by: SE4NICK on 2007-02-08 07:59 ]


Posted by >500
what city you in? you in melbourne?

Posted by SE4NICK
Na, central west NSW. And no its not one of those hillbilly hell towns, soo any ideas 4 me about this girl.

Posted by goldenface
Surprise her with a bunch of flowers and compose a poem.

Does she have any clue that you like her - do you think she will be pleasantly surprised or will she run for the hills?

Has she got a friend you can tap for information?

Posted by SE4NICK
Well, she does no that i like her, although i havnt said it straight out yet (Valentines day is the day), her friends may be able to tell me something, ill see to moz. But i do know she likes Panic at the disco, and the colour pink. but she already has their P!ATD album, and i want it to be something, longer lasting then flowers.

Does that help you help me.

Posted by goldenface
Just be bold and ask her to be your Valentine, and I would ask her out before Valentines day - before she makes plans with anyone else - then you will both have the day to look forward too.

If she accepts then it will be an occasion she will never forget. If she doesn't then so what, at least you tried.

Faint Heart never won Fair Maiden.....as the saying goes.

As for things to do - what about a picnic - just you and her



Posted by leeboy13
take her out for a meal.... maybe a jazz cafe of something....

goldenfaces idea about a picnic was good unless the weather continues

also the flowers a a poem thing would go down a treat

And defo ask her asap as goldenface also said - you dont want her making other plans do you

just be confident dude...

best of luck!

Posted by masseur
sounds like you're somewhere like Bathurst

I reckon flowers and that are dated and not many girls I know want their guy to waste money on things like that for them preferring something more personal.

a good meal out and maybe a movie is a good start and has done well with me in the past

if you are in Bathurst, promise to take her to the hill this year if she's a petrol head or a trip to the big smoke (Sydney). Country girls like that, I know 'coz I married one!

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Posted by maggflodd
Quote:

On 2007-02-08 06:40:07, SE4NICK wrote:
K theres this girl i REALLY like and id like to do something for her on Valentines day, and maybe go out with her sometime. What could i do.

Any ideas

[ This Message was edited by: SE4NICK on 2007-02-08 07:59 ]

whatever you do, do not show her this thread!!! Other than that? Details?! Are you 50 and she's 15 - that'd be wrong, even within the framework of "valantines"... Are you in school or working or, backtracking..., both... (see above)?
Anyhow... Surprise her - in a good way. buying one of 100.000 identical Hallmark cards does NOT count as a surprise! and nothing that you don't like...

Posted by LesleyAnn
show her a bit of culture... maybe there's an exhibition of sculpture or a photographer's private view nearby... read up make sure you know something about what you're looking at. Think "intelligent conversation"! Then take her for a drink...

(hey! this worked on me!)

Posted by *Jojo*
@nick - Buy her a fone . . . even if it's just the CHEAP (low end models) ones . . . I'm sure you will be KISSED with this idea

Godo Luck !

Posted by Marly
@Jojo :
And what if she owns a more expensive phone, than he bought for her ?
She'll be insulted.
Women have sophisticated phones too, you know .

Posted by *Jojo*
Quote:

On 2007-02-09 01:22:43, Marly wrote:
@Jojo :
And what if she owns a more expensive phone, than he bought for her ?
She'll be insulted.
Women have sophisticated phones too, you know .




@marly - DEFINITELY there is NO problem here . . . . I've tried this TRICK before. I was planning to give a girl a not-so-expensive and a NOT-so-CHEAP gift, so to be in JUST between . . . I gave her a brand new low-end fone then (:se: K500) . I know that she had a P910i then, and I was just very much - CLUELESS as to the thing she wants BEST that time. She directly told me that she SOLD the K500 and bought herself a NICE DRESS (don't know her SIZE too) . . . she was happy with my IDEA Never saw here again, after 2 months though . . . but I manage to take her to - Victoria !

Posted by mcrosser
man just be natural. Perhaps joke a bit about valentines . Say ... "so you must already have like 100 valentine's proposals eh ?! " and go on with the conversation until the right moment when you tell her to be your valentine's or I don't know man go for it

Posted by SE4NICK
Well, im a student at uni, but not bathurst, i live in orange NSW just 40 mins from bathurst. And how did you know about the hill.

Also i decided to get her something that will last, i was going to get jewlery.......

BUT i should have asked her out before any one else did like you guys said. , because someone else asked her out, and she said yes.

I feel like s**t and i drunk 4 straight glasses of rum in past half hour.

F**K ive never felt this lousy EVER, i never liked any one the same way i liked her.

Man, I feel Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Bad.

I cant believe this.

Any way everyone thanks for your help anyways.

Also sorry for swaring, and ty again anyway.

[ This Message was edited by: SE4NICK on 2007-02-09 05:28 ]

Posted by zmoleyez_86
if you really like this girl try asking her some other day right? the thing here is to have a date with her.

Posted by SE4NICK
Well, the guy she said yes to, they just publicly announced it on MSN, that they are a couple.

Make that 5 glasses of rum.



Posted by zmoleyez_86
oohhh...sorry to hear that... you'll find someone better....i believe there's someone perfect for you.

Posted by SE4NICK
Thanks zmoleyez_86

You make me feel better, i ran out of rum, i just got to drive to bottle shop.

Ill be back soon, Just as depressed as i am now.

but still i want her.

Posted by >500
i was going to say take her to Moonlight Cinema and have a picnic. I think there is one in Sydney Its very romantic... Though the time i went in melbourne i didnt go for a date

Posted by masseur
Quote:

On 2007-02-09 06:26:21, SE4NICK wrote:
Well, im a student at uni, but not bathurst, i live in orange NSW just 40 mins from bathurst. And how did you know about the hill.



ah! Orange, I didn't realise that was counted as Central Wester NSW

I know about Bathurst firstly 'coz I'm aussie, secondly 'coz I live in Sydney (though Melbourne born) and thirdly 'coz I've been to see Brocky and the rest many times at Bathurst!

Posted by >500
@mass

Melbourne born? how dare you, you traiter Melbourne is SOOO much better, Why?



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Posted by SE4NICK
@masseur

Have you been to orange, i have also seen brocky race (RIP Brocky)

I didnt realise i lived so close to you masseur, cool !!!

(I dont know if its the alchohole, but im feeling better)

Maybe i should rename this thread and change it to something about brocky or NSW or somthing.

[ This Message was edited by: SE4NICK on 2007-02-09 09:31 ]

Posted by masseur
I've only flown (myself in a light aircraft) to orange just for the hell of it but haven't actually stopped in the city

my wife comes from a mid north nsw country town and its all just to quiet for this city guy!

anyway, chin up. patience is a useful tool to have and when this girl dumps this guy... you're in!
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