Posted by fatreg
right..
im getting hacked off with certain member from certain places and there atitude towards women on this forum, i find it rude, crass and frankly uncalled for..
i here-by start a petition to stop these members being allowed to post such comments and should be reffered to certain websites that will entertain their needs.
signed: fatreg
Posted by Dicky Snapples
Here here.
i was thinking about starting one due to a certain members actions (we all know who)
it has to stop!
signed- dicky snapples
Posted by axxxr
first im hearing about this....who is it then fatreg?
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Posted by fatreg
not saying for obvious reasons but scout about where ladies hang out....
Posted by axxxr
I know now who it is....I think i need to have words with him!
Posted by fatreg
possioby a damn good idea axxxr...
fatreg
Posted by axxxr
He can go a little OTT sometimes without thinking about what he's actually saying...careless!
Posted by fatreg
theres carelessness and theres being rude.. and the being rude is the bit people dont like..
this is a family site and as such should be run like one....
fatreg
Posted by axxxr
I guess being rude is simply unacceptable...he should be coming online soon,if he isn't here already.
see what he has to say for himself!
Posted by Xugaa
Whatever it is its rude and unacceptable ...
Also... the ladies have a special place?! I want a special place...
Posted by Luke-the-magic-man
I haf agree to this, and know who u mean etc, but other members including myself have made pretty outragous comments on this forum regards women, nationality etc in the name of comedy, the question is when does it go to far?
Posted by SsTiTcH
There is definetly no need for rude , crass , uncivilised behavior here on Esato. One of many things that I like about it here is the lack of such primitive behavior .. Well said on your petition fatreg I fully agree.
Posted by tmagberry
I agree
Its sad to have to come to this
tmag2005
Posted by leeboy13
im with you fatreg, its not on..... as soon as a member states she is female you know this member will be posting any sec asking for pics etc..... this is not really the website for this....
siogned - leeboy13
Posted by Aware
Don't have to search, seen the proof, bad form!
Do what you must, chaps....
Posted by fairygirl1
Can I join this petition??
Was "jumped" on by this person the minute I made a post.
While I can take any sarky comment from people, and give you an answer back, this one pushes it that little bit tooooooo far!
Posted by Davo_169
this member has also made a pass at me several times, i told him i was a male and liked girls but he kept persisting me for a picture so i sent him one and he swore at me, slapped my ass, and told me not to send him pictures of my brother....i dont want to name names but methylated_spirit....it has to stop mate...i like you, as a freind...nothing more
Posted by goldenface
He's reknowned for it. Jumps on every girls posts and then spews rubbish - yes I am talking about you 786KBR a bloody nuisance and he should be banned.
Nah, if you're talking about who I think you're talking about, then if someone has a problem about it they should complain. Other than that ....... a quiet word should suffice.
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Posted by Dicky Snapples
goldenface- people DO have a problem with it,and mr.reg thought he'd start the topic to get the ball rolling. thats what this thread is for
Posted by goldenface
I know. Why gang up?
@reg
Do things through the proper channels. Don't go public.....
please......
its ugly
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Posted by leeboy13
im totally behind fatreg on this one..... it needed to be said... enough of us feel the same way - this is the only way someone can bring this kind of subject up in order to see how many people actually are annoyed about it... i know if it were me in question id think about it knowing that its annoying so many people.....
surely its not better to all talk behind someones back..... and as far as i can see no-ones being spiteful atall, just being allowed to make our opinions heard
Posted by goldenface
I'm sort of guessing that anyone with a problem has made the effort to PM him first.....
Has anyone?
Approached him?
?????
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Posted by Davo_169
i am appalled at how ive been treated by the afformentioned member. hes an animal and he needs to be stopped... its terrible though, he has beautiful eyes and his hair smells like cinemmon..
Posted by goldenface
@Trog
Why do good things happen to bad people
Posted by clank
Totally behind fatreg on this one...
No names are being named here so if somebody manages to figure out who is being talked about here then obviously the pervy behaviour is quite conspicuous and deserves to be dealt with.
I believe its good that this post was created to let the member know its not an off incident of somebody being annoyed.....instead the whole community finds it irritating and has just been quiet for the sake of being polite.
Posted by SCORPIONKING1982
who's all this about then, ive been away for 3 weeks and not caught up yet!
pm me if you dont want his name public. although that kinda defeats the point of the thread.
Posted by fatreg
you will soon know who i mean.. and yes i have contacted one member who says it is in jest...
i know jest.. and i know what he says doesnt come across as jest...
if this wasnt the way to deal with such an issue on a forum surely this would have been locked and trashed by now?
fatreg
Posted by whistla
I dont know who you are talking about but i also agree!
Posted by haynesycop
I think this is a good idea, goldenface you do have a point but as leeboy said. How will we know who is annoyed about this person's attitude without creating a thread. It is not like we can go around and pm everyone to ask their opinion right?
In no way are we trying to cause trouble and to get this person banned, we just think their behaviour towards the female's of this community is abit uncalled for. There are plenty of other avenues for this person to pursue for "female attention" or whatever you want to call it.
At the end of the day esato is a mobile phone forum and not a dating agency. Yes alot of you may say i am contradicting myself as i hardly post on mobile issues, but i don't hound the opposite sex for pictures or their phone number.
There are more women on this forum than people know about, who do not want to disclose it. Because of such issues and the unwanted attention they may get, which is such a shame really.
To the person involved please leave people be and let them get on with enjoying the forum.
Posted by fatreg
exactly wifey....
the member im on about also doesnt ask when he knows they are attached...
so he is obvisiouly after more... and as i've said this is a family forum and should be kept within certain restraints.
i'd like to think its going to stop after a little chat i had last night...
but time will tell...
fatreg
Posted by masseur
while I understand the sentiment of the thread and clearly know the type of person being discussed (and its not just one person btw), I can say I can only ever recall one complaint about one person and the request to me was to ask that person to stop PMing that person.
given the title of thread "The stop perving petition" do we also consider threads filled with gratuitious girlie pics to be pervy? an example that comes to mind would be this one
given fatreg's last comment I can only assume that such posts should also be restricted?
I also feel that to a large extent such posts also fit most of the comments of his opening post?
Posted by haynesycop
I never really thought about the different type of pictures and threads that have been posted. It is more to do with the fact that whenever a member admits to being female or a female joins the forum they get bombarded by pm's!
I had so many pm messages when i changed my username from thecopperfield to miss copperfield, why? Somehow it changes peoples attitude towards you which is really stupid.
Posted by fatreg
you will notice masseur that i did not post in that thread.. while my view of indecent material maybe different to others i feel that there are enough of us that feel certain members know what they are doing.. the member im talking about even posted in the above thread asking if it would get the mods approval.. therefore knowing it was wrong..
all i ask for is a little decency and courtesy towards our female members.. yes i am male but i know only too well what its like to be a female and get attention.. and NO i have never been female before we go down this route. i just happen to have had a special upbringing...
thanks for listening.
fatreg
Posted by masseur
I'm not disagreeing with what you are saying, and if I got more complaints I would deal with them, but my opinion in general was that members know and "understand" these people and take little notice and/or treat their posts with as much respect as they deserve
PM's are a different, and more serious matter, and we have no access to those so it really does require a complaint to a moderator
I do feel though, that this topic should be widened to include the issue I have raised. should pics such as these be allowed? are they pervy and perhaps give a more liberal attitude of the forum that we might want?
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Posted by siamese plantpot
if posts of a more 'liberal' subject matter were grouped together the user would know what they were going to be reading etc and therefore could have no complaints?
while i say this i feel the forum should still uphold the standards it tries to have now and merely group posts that moderators feel may offend some.
as for PM'ing people just because they are female, i find that quite sad. what chance is there that the said female would even like the male involved, let alone want to send pictures around the internet. i feel that practises such as that should be stopped.
Posted by joebmc
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Well now we all know who it is
And i'm glad i never posted in that thread, hopefully rules me out as being a perv
Posted by REO
All of you throwing stones.... Take a look at the hipocrisy that most of you display here in petitioning for the ban of a member here.
When a few of you posting here have made a mockery of the 911 Tragedy on several occassions.
Yet you are so quick to judge others when some of you are without blemish, Mockery of others tragedy is not honerable either.
I don't know who you are refering to in this post, but if you want to all get self righteous, then practice what you preach.... Specifically the person (and his followers) who posted the Offensive link that Masseur was refering to.
If you want respect GIVE RESPECT !!!!!!!!!!
@Masseur
Honestly, the thread (link) that I refered to, that you made reference to earlier in this thread (questioning wether appropiate )was very offensive to me when I first saw this in esato and should be completely eliminated from the forum........
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Posted by slugworth
behind mr reg... on the view of sexual harasment
i do feel all "porn" threds should be removed from esato as not all of us wanna look at it (im male btw) if i wasnted porn ill goto an adult website not a family aged fourm
yes im even talking about the "babe" themes etc unless women are going to start posting pics of men etc (im not gay!) but my view is if women use the fourm (which they do) they should be treated the same not by hungry horny men who get kicks out of pm
Posted by *Jojo*
OK . . . I have kept my 'silence' from post 1 made by Fatreg . . . I know I am just 'one' of those peeps he is aiming at here ! In my case . . . going with the title of this thread . . . how would you in the FIRST place define - PERVERSION, Fatreg
I know (you too) that in other threads we came across each other's remarks re: this issue . . . In the case of the newbie-female-member: Marly . . . YES! I openly asked for her pic . . . just to find out how she looks . . . 'fortunately' she replied that she will send me her pic . . . had I got a negative remark with my request . . . then I guess that will be my problem anymore, don't ya think Fatreg and Dicky
With regards to this PERVERSION issue . . . had I asked for a nudie pics of the female members here . . . YES, you can call me a pervert then, but did I
Also, I've made a THREAD back then in 2004 I surmise . . . for the Esatonians to post their REAL and PERSONAL Pics . . . so far so GOOD, as I got some favorable responses!
Though you did NOT name names here . . . I know that I am just one of those . . . I've exchanged PMs with you Fatreg . . .
Next time it will be more prudent I guess to PM the person concerned so ISSUES will be discussed amongst YOU/US . . . the Mods is a proper channel to too tackle issues like this one . . .
Just my share here mates . . .
Posted by REO
It is widely known here that Fatreg, DickySnapples and Axxxr are instigators and all they do is stain this forum with there antics..
"Don't do today, what you can do tommorow".
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Posted by axxxr
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Oh yeh....widely known by who exactly?...care to elaborate?...if you can;t make a sensible comment i suggest you should'nt be making one at all.
Posted by Sammy_boy
Looks like I'll have a nice flame war to keep me occupied on my last night shift....
I hope we are not getting 'factions' here on Esato, I like to think we'd be one big, happy family but I guess not
Cool your jets guys, this is threatening to get nasty
Posted by Luke-the-magic-man
lol I can think of quite a few more idiots who post scrap here them them guys, like dicky cmon? whats that about he seems pretty sensible lol, axxxr is just axxxr and fatreg is just a mix lol
I Think there are numerous members here who post stupid, and crappy subjects and replys. Like mince and meths thread, the chat thread, the word association game, they are all filled with rubbish, but are all in good humour
also at jojo - were you JN before? I would say asking for pics is fine, but its the way you do it, no offence meant, but the last one you said about you were rather persistant and for most people forums are a place where they rather be heard and not seen, especially newer members.
Also I tink its the fact that you only really ask for womens photos, never have I had you perstering for a pic of me or know any blokes who have
@ BIG M
I agree with what you said about the semi porno gadgets thread. When I saw it I thought it should be banned as although I like off topic things like that and do appreciate the development of such threads, I don't think its really the kind of thing for esato as it is bordering porn, fair enough a ass is fine (theyre shown on tv in dove ads etc) but when you get peoples girlfriends and themselves posing in such ways with gadgets it really does look like the start of a soft porn thread (I knwo they are not showing anything, but its mainly the poses) I think i found that one most amusing as I didnt realise some people were so sad/weird fettishes
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Posted by SsTiTcH
@ reo . What the bloody hell does the 9 11 thread have to do with the subject of this post. And fyi . Im a survivor of hurricane katrina . Was in it and have got NO damn assistance since been trying . The so called 911 victims got more help. Just one more reason I Left bloody America and wont go back. Now stick to the topic of this post. I could get very ugly regarding yanks but have better things to do with my time. Soz bout the outburst everyone.. Except reo.
Posted by tmagberry
I was going to stay out of this thread after my initial post, however seeing as I actually have witnessed some of the comments made my PM to one particular female member on here, when the person sending the PMs knows who i am in relation to that particular female - I have to say that if those comments were made face to face then they wouldnt be standing. Just because its typed doesnt take away from the hurt that can be caused.
Pervert might not be the right word but PEST certainly is! Just cos the sender might make a comment in jest, think about the other person involved.
Have some manners, as I very much doubt you (general) were dragged up by your parents as a child - so stop behaving like one
Posted by *Jojo*
I quite agree with you LUKE ! But everything should not be made - serious around ya think? We need some 'diversions' aside from the usual celfone problems to solve etc around.
Posted by axxxr
I completely agree with you mate!
Posted by Dicky Snapples
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what are you on about?(REO)
i wouldnt say any of us " stain this forum."
axxxr is one of the most respected members here,with many credible/interesting/humerous and fantastic posts.
and Mr.Reg is also an esato legend,who also contributes greatly to this forum.
as for myself,i dont really see myself as a " stain " on the forum.(altough others may disagree)
i just belive in sticking up for what is right.
the way(some) people treat others on this site is just wrong.and shouldnt go unnoticed.
and why are we the idiots? for sticking by what believe in??!!!??
rather that than follow the crowd like sheep
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Posted by *Jojo*
@dick - I quite agree with you back there mate . . . saying about - axxxr, as one of the highly respected member here because of those mobile phone related topics/threads he has posted here . . . not UNTIL he made his anti-Bush threads . . . politics/religion etc. are just one of the topics we should be avoiding here in the forums . . . well as for you, I really appreciate those images you've posted in my thread: Images Taken with Your Camfone-Nokia/Samsung/Motorola/Siemens et al Thread . . . now, how would you describe a 'pervert' if I may ask dude? I know that you have plans initiating this thread, not until Fatreg did it - aiming at me as ONE of those !
If you can recall (as you are an old member here too) . . . I've made the Please Post Your Real and Personal Pics Here Members - Thread in 2004 . .. so far, I've got favorable responses with that - mostly males . . . it's just that I wanted newbies to fill it up if possible - no COERCION intended . . . is that PERVERSION
Was I asking for their NUDIE pics