Posted by fatreg
heres a question for you..
do or do i not get the ex a birthday card??
no i dont want to get back with her.. well not just yet anyway!!
i just dont think im that cold and heartless to ignore its her b'day or would she prefer i didnt..
ooh oohh.. i dunno,
i'll leave my £3 decision in your hands!
fatreg
Posted by Cycovision
If you split up on bad terms then - no! She'll think you're taking the p**s.
If you're still good friends then - yes! It won't hurt at all.
Unless...
She's now seeing somebody else, in which case it might cause problems if said somebody sees it. That wouldn't bother you personally at all but if you might want to get back together with her at some point, she might resent you for it if it does cause any trouble.
Posted by masseur
yes, of course you do
when you've been that close to someone you don't just forget them as soon as its over, unless you really didn't value the relationship that much in the first place
Posted by fatreg
good point cyco..
she isnt with someone else.. she loves me too much apparently.......
but i dont know... maybe i send one from ?..
order it off moonpig and she wont even know its me..
ahhh that sounds like a plan batman..
fatreg
Posted by pmerryman
Yeah, get the card. May even score some brownie points, if you want them that is
Posted by govigov
if she doesnt know that you are sending one , then whats the point in sending one?
i say you sign it.
Posted by fatreg
that was my thought masseur..
ill send one then..
and yeah you never know might get me some brownie points!
not they are much good to me at the moment but yeah could be helpful in a few months...
cheers guys, suppose you can lock and bim this now big M.
fatreg
Posted by pmerryman
Why in a fe months may we ask?
Posted by fatreg
cuz itll be xmas and i want a xmas pressie!!
hehehehehehehe...
fatreg
Posted by pmerryman
But that also means buying a pressie.
Posted by fatreg
yeah thats cool..
thats not the real reason anyway.
i reckon in a few months our paths will cross again and we will get back to where we left off..
fatreg
Posted by pmerryman
Maybe a good ending then in a couple of months.
Posted by fatreg
well i hope so.
but hey ho..
fatreg
Posted by pmerryman
off topic here, but did you get your 3.5mm adapter for your d900. Only I got one off ebay for my e900, and I'm sure its the same fit.
Posted by fatreg
no i didnt..
still need one...
fatreg
Posted by parsnip
lol!!
Posted by fatreg
whats that for phazer?
fatreg
Posted by pmerryman
here you go.
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBay[....]widgettype=cross_promot_widget
Posted by fatreg
£3.50 inc p and p..
bargain!
cheers
fatreg
Posted by Luke-the-magic-man
when I broke up with my ex about 4 days before her bday I still gave her the present I got for her (rather expensive white gold heart shaped locket studed with some diamonds) and a dvd although I cant quite remember but I think I forgot to get her a card lol
Posted by *Jojo*
@luke - With a GIFT that expensive . . . I guess you won't be needin' a Bday card anymore - SMS will do . . .
@fat - The situation is kinda delicate dude . . . it's NOT if you ended up in BAD/GOOD terms . . . 'but' . . . . giving a sign like that will 'might' mean 'differently' on her part, she might thinks that she's OBLIGED to treat you on her special day
. . . . kidding aside, she might get the notion that you want her back or what 
Good Luck ! Maybe a firmware upgrade will do 
Posted by JK
Lol I still got my ex's bottle of guess perfume!!